I slapped my ex across the face tonight.

[livelife]

Let me start off by saying, I am in no way crazy and I have never laid a hand on anyone before.

Me and my ex have been through so much. Basically, we are trying to work on things. I have heard so many times to move on from him and to forget about him. I do not trust him. He has this anonymous twitter ( he knows I know about it ) Well. on this anon twitter a girl from Kentucky with the account name..I kid you not... "Big Bootyyyy" tweets him all the time about how hes so sweet to her. I called him out and he said shes just trying to make her ex jealous. Well today I see shes tweeting to him that shes coming to Atlanta tonight and I thought it was a joke. I went by his house to see her car there, rang his door bell walk in see her and I go are you ****ing kidding me? ( in front of his 2 best friends ) Slap the **** out of him and walk out.

 

 

he blew up my phone afer I drove off. Called me about 10 times and I finally answered and we had like an hour long convo about the break up, how he treats me and how im insecure because of him and we discussed the anon account ( there were a lot of tears on my part and a lottt of yelling. ) I told him in tears i'm ready to be happy. I'm sick of feeling like this. and he ended it on, Well what I want you to do is calm down, think about what you want and how youre going to get it, and text me tomorrow when youve chilled out. There is no way i'm texting him, but thoughts?

[CptSaveAho]

I told him in tears i'm ready to be happy. I'm sick of feeling like this

 

So you want to be happy, yet you continue to do things that make you unhappy.

 

1) You watch an ex's twitter account

2) You drive by his place and confront him while he is an ex

3) You slap an ex

4) You have an hour long phone conversation with an ex.f

5) You listen to the bull**** an ex tells you when you know its bull**** and somehow twist it in your head as the truth and that he magically loves you but would rather be with some big booty girl from another state.

 

I would be miserable if I did all these things. If I was you, I would come up with a plan of ways to move forward that dont have activities associated with your ex. See how this works, you stop doing things that make you miserable 1-5 and guess what, you stop being miserable after time and locking down NC

[livelife]

So you want to be happy, yet you continue to do things that make you unhappy.

 

1) You watch an ex's twitter account

2) You drive by his place and confront him while he is an ex

3) You slap an ex

4) You have an hour long phone conversation with an ex.f

5) You listen to the bull**** an ex tells you when you know its bull**** and somehow twist it in your head as the truth and that he magically loves you but would rather be with some big booty girl from another state.

 

I would be miserable if I did all these things. If I was you, I would come up with a plan of ways to move forward that dont have activities associated with your ex. See how this works, you stop doing things that make you miserable 1-5 and guess what, you stop being miserable after time and locking down NC

 

Yes I know i'm miserable. But its not that hes an ex ( now he is) but like he was an ex but an ex that we were still talking over things with, we were still trying to see change in eachother. Do I block him from Facebook? I already blocked him from my twitter account.

[Drseussgrrl]

Yes you block him on facebook or better yet, get rid of facebook altogether. All it is is nonsense and noise and a time-waster. I did it two days ago and feel great, at peace, and CALM, like I can hear my own voice.

 

If there is going to be any salvaging of this relationship you both need to MOVE ON. NC for at least 6 months while you heal.

 

Honestly this guy sounds totally shady and not being on the level with you anyway.

 

What I have learned is that people break up for a reason and it sounds like enough crap has happened to where you snapped, went momentarily crazy and smacked him. This is NOT LOVE.

[Chi townD]

First off, I'm sure that you would never expect or want a man to put his hands on you in anger. Therefore, I think you should have shown the same respect. Hitting someone is wrong and I don't care how angry you were.

 

Now, here's the rub....you two are broken up. He's not responsible to you and you aren't responsible to him. If you walked in on an orgy in progress...still comes back to, HE NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND ANYMORE!!! Right now, he can do whatever he wants....and so can you.

 

It's time to move on. Time to stop reading his tweets, time to stop looking at his facebook, time to stop texting and calling. It's time to heal and move on.