joel Posted August 5, 2004 Share Posted August 5, 2004 remember before i told u guys about a gal who was glancing at me. well yesterday i chit chatted with her outside the class-waiting for class-it was our last day of eng lit. not sure if she like me or not she is quite. she did aske me how i was doing in the class i said ok. i said i like the this **** book and she said she liked it too.we talked about our courses and then the subject of math came , she passed this tough math course which i failed will she look down on me. i told her i had to withdrawal from it -it was hard all i'm saying is i'm chinese yea lol-math failed too-ok it as hard. but the thing in our culture is schooling is important, i remeber in HS a couple of chinese kids my classmates would harass and poke fun of me if i scored a C or C+ and they got like A's, or even a lower mark to be it. i don;t now will she be like that too once she finds out i'm not a academic nerd will she say look down on me and not communicate with me since in our culture school and grades are like look upon so highly. personally like i said if i work out great-we do these so called cheap activites-since i have no job-rollerblading, biking, tennis.....etc sports, or a quick bite-burgers if i doesn't work out like i said i might ssee her again ahhhh yikesss Link to post Share on other sites
disconcertainly Posted August 6, 2004 Share Posted August 6, 2004 I honestly do not think she shoudl look down on you for that. And if she does you do not need her...do really want some one like that? Link to post Share on other sites
Taken_Angel Posted August 6, 2004 Share Posted August 6, 2004 I agree. Doing something "cheap" isn't a bad idea. It will give you a chance to get to know her better w/out spending a bunch of money and if you two aren't in a crowded bar or whatever it'll give you a chance to talk to her and open up and show her what a great guy you are and not have to worry about your grades anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted August 6, 2004 Share Posted August 6, 2004 I really doubt she will look down upon you for your grades. Just be nice and sweet to her, and if you do go on a date , don't expect sex at the end of the night if you spend money on her. A date where you don't have to spend money would sound nice. Good luck:p Link to post Share on other sites
Dork Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 it's you, not the grades. Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 it's you, not the grades. He didn't say she didn't like him, he said he was worried she wouldn't. Joel, just be yourself and don't worry about your grades, I'm sure that's the last thing she'll be thinking about. Just treat her good and who knows where it will go. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joel Posted August 7, 2004 Author Share Posted August 7, 2004 be sweet to her-well how and what should i say can u give some examples. making converations is hard too i remember first talking to her and she wasn't exactly very talktive just answered my questions Originally posted by honey2005 I really doubt she will look down upon you for your grades. Just be nice and sweet to her, and if you do go on a date , don't expect sex at the end of the night if you spend money on her. A date where you don't have to spend money would sound nice. Good luck:p Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 Well for starters you can compliment her on how she looks. To make conversation just ask her about what she likes, and when she mentions something that interests you, too, start talking about that. If she doesn't have any of the same interests, ask questions about the things she likes. Ask her about her family, what she likes to do when she's not at school, if she's into any sports....just anything that will keep the conversation going. She might be shy, so you might have to start the conversation. Don't talk much about yourself unless she asks. But over all, just relax, have fun, and be yourself:) Link to post Share on other sites
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