griffinchicken53 Posted November 16, 2012 Share Posted November 16, 2012 i may have touched on this subject before. Anytime i'm lonely, people tell me to suck it up and be happy. when i'm happy, people think i need to find someone. Right now I'm career focused and I don't want to get derailed. I guess the holidays bring up emotions, relatives asking why you are still single. Ive seen people in great relationships, and then I've seen people in horrible relationships. And from that I only see a negative outcome. My outlook: I have a classic muscle car and taking it on a road trip I think it would be great to have someone to go with me to the car show on the East Coast. But in reality I'm sure I would be forced to sell it and give up all my other interests. Ive seen it happen to friends. Another example: having someone to go snowskiing, water skiing, weekend getaway to the mountains, etc. what the woman would say "i went to the mountains with my 2nd boyfriend, that's not my thing anymore" i went water skiing with my 3rd boyfriend and his family every weekend. I don't have any desire to do that anymore. We'll just sit in the house all the time and never do anything" And this makes me a bastard, but the sex aspect. I'm in my 30s so by the time i have sex with someone, the firm boobs are gone, the vag is ragged out and i can't feel anything...I might be cynical because i didn't get to enjoy sex while everything was Perky. And by then i'm sure a woman just wants sex every few months, and i'll be denied getting to masterbate. I just feel like i'm either alone forever or be with someone and be just as miserable. Link to post Share on other sites
Tiera D Posted November 17, 2012 Share Posted November 17, 2012 Not really,you could always get rich and a great career,im sure you would attract young gold diggers at the very least,Dont be sad dude cheer up,dont be controlled by others live your own destiny,pave your own route,what makes others happy may not be what is the same with you.sex is just a humans beastial need,there are many other pursuits TD Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted November 17, 2012 Share Posted November 17, 2012 I know you intended this as a rant, but you have a seriously skewed view of women and relationships. Have you ever been in a relationship? Do you realize that you get to choose the person who you are in the relationship with? You sound like you've learned everything you know about relationships via movies and stereotypes. My outlook: I have a classic muscle car and taking it on a road trip I think it would be great to have someone to go with me to the car show on the East Coast. But in reality I'm sure I would be forced to sell it and give up all my other interests. Ive seen it happen to friends. Why don't you date women who respect and support your interest in muscle cars rather than the ones who hate it? Another example: having someone to go snowskiing, water skiing, weekend getaway to the mountains, etc. what the woman would say "i went to the mountains with my 2nd boyfriend, that's not my thing anymore" i went water skiing with my 3rd boyfriend and his family every weekend. I don't have any desire to do that anymore. We'll just sit in the house all the time and never do anything" This might come as a huge shock to you, but many women exist in this world who enjoy skiing and outdoorsy things and don't just do them because a boyfriend forces them to. Find one of them. And this makes me a bastard, but the sex aspect. I'm in my 30s so by the time i have sex with someone, the firm boobs are gone, the vag is ragged out and i can't feel anything...I might be cynical because i didn't get to enjoy sex while everything was Perky. And by then i'm sure a woman just wants sex every few months, and i'll be denied getting to masterbate. I just feel like i'm either alone forever or be with someone and be just as miserable. And I'm sure you look fantastic? Don't worry--she'll be noticing all your flaws also. First off, 30s isn't old and a lot of women still look great. Women are also in their prime sexually in their 30s. You should find one of them. Although, I have to say--with your attitude, good luck getting them to want you. You sound like a peach! Link to post Share on other sites
Author griffinchicken53 Posted November 19, 2012 Author Share Posted November 19, 2012 I don't tell people my outlook. And I base all my information off Married With Children and how peg made his life miserable. Not really, but ive seen it happen to friends. They start dating someone cool, then she changes. And it goes without saying that men can be the same way. I remember a night I was out with friends. The guy's girlfriend was going to meet us, the guy calls to see where she is at. I hear arguing in the phone. She decided she didn't want to see it, and decided she didn't want him to see it either. Link to post Share on other sites
Author griffinchicken53 Posted November 19, 2012 Author Share Posted November 19, 2012 I was in a relationship, it wasn't for very long. Another example: friend worked so his girlfriend could go to school, he paid her bills, when she was finished shed work so he could finish school. When she graduated she decided, no he should just keep his job so they could go get married and start having kids. I've seen good relationships, and that is what I want, someone who enjoys the same things I do. But it never fails, if I ever let anyone know I'm interested, they tell me it's a bad idea and I should try for this other person (which has nothing in common) Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 Stop worrying about what other people think. You will be much happier. Link to post Share on other sites
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