My jealousy is taking over! . . How can I control it?! . .

[ukie-cutie]

The guy I love with all that I am is coming here in November, we will finally be meeting for the first time face to face. We both care for one another deeply, but we both have jealousy issues.

 

Before I had met him, I was dating one of my ex's, & Anthony was just one of my friends. Well Anthony began to develop feelings for me, and I for him, months passed & we just fell madly in love with each other. Well, he is an actor & stars in different plays. Thing is, when I hear he is going for coffee with one of the girls he acts with, I become really jealous. It's hard for me to hear this. He practically has to kiss them & touch them in the plays, then he goes for coffee. I understand I shouldn't be jealous but it's hard not to be. Because I want to be there with him, I want to be the one looking him in the eye, not the actors & actresses he rehearses with. He as well becomes jealous when I used to hang out with guys friends.

 

How can I stop becoming so overly jealous like this? I'm scared that if I don't learn how to control it, sooner or later my insecurities will ruin the relationship. It's just hard for me not to question if he is seeing another girl, because I have had guys cheat on me, and we have a long distance relationship as well, so it's hard knowing he interacts with other women. How can I control this before it's to late?! . .

P.S. I accidently posted this in the wrong forum, I posted it

in the business section by accident, sillie me.

[disconcertainly]

Do u trust him? If 100% trust him you should not feel as stringly as you do. Really ask your self has he ever given you a reason not to trust him?