volentia Posted November 17, 2012 Share Posted November 17, 2012 Hello newbie here:) Dating scares me but i want to do it so I recently read 'The Rules'( a book on dating by Sherrie Shneider)which outlines do's and don'ts when thinking of dating. It really put things into perspective for me and I realize just how little I know about men. When growiing up all i learned where that men were kind and with good intentions. and because of this i am easy going and freindly, i can easily chat to anyone about anything but it made me naieve in a way. So after a series of disasters , (abuse etc ) i also realized now that men are a no go area for casual chat which has created a kind of vacuum in which i can't easily just go up them and chat as i would with women. which is a good thing because the book recommends not to. but the men i am interested in are the laid back hippy kind and that i'm not sure if this book would apply to these kind of men or not ? sometimes i think its just as good to connect on values. has anyone had any success with this book? does it apply to all men? Link to post Share on other sites
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