Yoloswag Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 Ok so recently i havent been sure about my feelings.. And my boyfriends best friend put his number in my phone we started talking a little bit just a normal convo. And my bf is the type of guy dat wud prefer his sleep over talking all night wid his girl , so wen hed sleep id just text his friend nd next thing u know were talking on the phone until 7 in the morning turns out we have a lot in common more than me nd my bf so i told my bf i needed a break , im still on a break. I got drunk wid his best frieend and we ended up having sex is it considered cheating if ur on a break ? It felt so right but so wrong at the same time , it wud kill him if he found out but wat u dont know wont hurt u right? After that happend me nd his friend went out to eat and to talk about what had happen we promised eachother we wouldnt tell him or anyone else because we dont want to ruin there friendship and we are both feeling guilty the thing is i dont know how to look him in the eyes without thinking about what had happend with his best friend . Link to post Share on other sites
KatZee Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 is it considered cheating if ur on a break ? Yes. Taking a "break" means you plan on getting back together, and unless boundaries were set for the break; (ie: we will or won't see other people, we are or aren't allowed to have sex with others...) you just cheated. it wud kill him if he found out but wat u dont know wont hurt u right? So you're fine basing a relationship on lies? i dont know how to look him in the eyes without thinking about what had happend with his best friend . The guilt WILL eat at you until it becomes unbearable. Link to post Share on other sites
Rajman Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 You cheated one day this will happen to you when you are really in love, it Karma what goes around come around. His best mate will get the same too. Neither of you derserve that guy....... Link to post Share on other sites
movingon12 Posted November 18, 2012 Share Posted November 18, 2012 Sounds to me like your relationship with your boyfriend is well and truly over. Even if you hadn't cheated, you weren't happy with what you had with him and were looking for something more. You need to decide whether you are going to start dating his best friend - or rather, his best friend is going to have to choose between him or you. I'm guessing he'll choose his friend. Link to post Share on other sites
ls32ssibm Posted November 19, 2012 Share Posted November 19, 2012 Great job, you selfish idiot. Chances are, you just put two best friends at odds and are going to ruin their friendship. Jesus Christ, don't you watch The Walking Dead? Of course, the only person you seem worried about is yourself. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
taya Posted November 19, 2012 Share Posted November 19, 2012 (edited) yeah what you did to that guy was really sick ..what if he was the one that sleep with your best friend ?? that would have killed you wouldent it.i can tell you this nothing good will come of it you just mess with two best friends and just desrespected your self ..and i bet the two of you still talking to the guy like nothing is wrong omg just sick ,,but what gos around will come back around remember that ,,,,,:o:o:o:o:o anyone eles but you had to mess with his best friend so cold and then you guys went out to eat after omg sick sick sick ..my god Edited November 19, 2012 by taya Link to post Share on other sites
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