Freddie77 Posted November 19, 2012 Share Posted November 19, 2012 (edited) Hi everyone. I've been thinking recently about about filming myself having sex with my wife without her knowing. We don't have a lot of sex since our kids were born so I thought I could film us to masturbate to later. I miss sex with her but she's always too tired from looking after the babies so I figured this would be the next best thing. She wouldn't agree to being filmed in case someone ever saw it but it'd be strictly for my own use and would be stored on an encrypted, password protected memory card. I guess I just want to know, would this really be so wrong? Am I a horrible person? Edited November 19, 2012 by Freddie77 Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted November 19, 2012 Share Posted November 19, 2012 It's very wrong. In fact, it's a crime. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Freddie77 Posted November 19, 2012 Author Share Posted November 19, 2012 You guys are right, of course you are. I just miss my wife you know? I promise you I'm not an a**hole and, for what it's worth, I do help her with the kids, as every father should. And of course if I ever did this I'd hate myself for it. Thanks for your honesty. Link to post Share on other sites
texasgladiator Posted November 19, 2012 Share Posted November 19, 2012 if u want to film urself having sex with your wife - then do it - its worth it in the long run having those sexy tapes. Link to post Share on other sites
BetheButterfly Posted November 19, 2012 Share Posted November 19, 2012 Hi everyone. I've been thinking recently about about filming myself having sex with my wife without her knowing. We don't have a lot of sex since our kids were born so I thought I could film us to masturbate to later. I miss sex with her but she's always too tired from looking after the babies so I figured this would be the next best thing. She wouldn't agree to being filmed in case someone ever saw it but it'd be strictly for my own use and would be stored on an encrypted, password protected memory card. I guess I just want to know, would this really be so wrong? Am I a horrible person? You're not a horrible person no. Do you have a safe? Maybe if one day when she's in a good mood, if you talk about putting the tape into a safe, she might agree? I personally think that's a great idea IF she said yes. I think it's beautiful that you want to masturbate thinking of your wife. I very much hope though that she gets feeling better so you two can enjoy having sex more often. Do y'all have trustworthy family members nearby who she trusts to babysit the babies? If so, it would be good to establish a date night where she can relax, have a nice bubble bath, go out to dinner with you, and let nature take it's course... That's one of my husband's fears, by the way, that when we have babies, that I'd not pay as much attention to him. I need to make sure to not allow that to happen, same as he has to make sure not to get so engrossed in his work that he forgets I'm his beloved. I very much hope that y'all figure out a way where she can get her rest and y'all can enjoy sex and grow stronger as a couple! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
veryhappy Posted November 19, 2012 Share Posted November 19, 2012 It's creepy. If she agrees fine, but if she doesn't respect your wife. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BrokenPrincess Posted November 19, 2012 Share Posted November 19, 2012 Yes it would be very wrong to secretly film your wife having sex after she said no. Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted November 19, 2012 Share Posted November 19, 2012 It would be very very wrong. As bentnotbroken said, if you want more sex, think about what you can do to help your wife get more rest and relaxation. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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