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Good at Approaching, Bad at Converting


yongyong

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I've approached countless girls this year.

 

Once in a while, I hit the jackpot (my type of a girl who likes me too) but I always fail to convert them for dating.

 

This recent girl was very interested in me as soon as I opened my mouth to her. we went out for a coffee and that was it.

 

I used be very shy about approaching girls.

But now it became a lot easier since I've been Practicing a lot.

I don't care if I get turned down after talking to them 30 seconds or 10 minutes. So I can just keep approaching more girls to build more confidence and learn from there.

 

But I get frustrated if I attract a girl and it goes nowhere after a first date.

To find my type of a girl who would be into me, I have to approach many girls.

Due to the investment I made, it's reasonable to get frustrated if nothing happens.

 

The thing is I can practice Approaching easily without investing my time too much. But Converting opportunity doesn't come often and I don't want to blow it.

 

Is there a way to practice for a first date? :bunny:

what would you do?

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