ltensail Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 I'm courting this girl whom I think I have high chance of becoming gf and bf with her. but she is very close to a guy as friends. She has reassured me that they are just friends many many times but i just can't stand it when i saw them together happily (chatting, fooling around). The fooling part is always started by the guy. he will try to be naughty and disturbs her. I think he is flirting with her but i don't have the rights to stop him OR maybe i should not stop them. I just cant stand it when this guy goes to her. I don't want to be selfish and over possessive. So how can I not be to so jealous easily? Being confident is everybody's advice. But how to build it? I want to kick this habit once and for all, if possible. Link to post Share on other sites
Kat Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 As someone who had a very hard time of trusting guys as well as having a very big jealousy issue. I still have them, but we have always made sure that we have always talked about things. I have always made it known that I have an 'issue' and when it gets me down I tell him. If he goes out with someone and I get jealous, I tell him. If I find myself doubting anything, I tell him. He usually reassures me and the fact that I was able to let it out helped me emensly. I am sure not everyone thinks this is a good idea and some may possibly get sick of you after a while. But I found that the best way to cope for me. Even found that he gave up things that upset me, just to make me happy. Link to post Share on other sites
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