Do u think I am a jealous ______________?

[disconcertainly]

Ok...me and my boyfriend live about two hours away from each other. We make our relationship work and I see him regularly. Last night I came to his house we had a great time and everything was fine. Well today he had to go to his parents b/c his little brothers b-day was thursday...no big deal...well he left around 10am this morning and he said "i will be back around 2 or 3" So i decided to stay at his house per his request. Well they were only suppose to go to chuckie cheese but i guess something happened and they decided to go all over the world. Meanwhile I am sitting at his house all alone and bored out of mind. I am trying my best to be happy but eugh its hard. I guess I just wish he would say Mom Dad I am sorry but I thought we were only going one place...I kinda have plans I am sorry. Am I being a jealous person for not wanting to be here all alone? I just feel like he is not respectful of my time and he will not tell his parents that he has plans. I amtrying not be icthy about this but it just kinda gets to me. Advice would be great.

BTW: I really dont like being around his parents that much so thats why I did not go...besides i felt like its kinda family thing.

 

Thanks

[babybrat0869]

hey...dont worry, u dont need to call ur self jelious just yet...but next time u need to tell him if he is going some where he needs to call if he is going to be late even if he dont have a phone or not ask someone to use there's u know...well the only time u need to be jelious is if something is iffy and if he is going to hang out with some people that has other gurls that u dont know...but u need to trust him if u love him...and next time if there is something like that going on...even if u dont like his parents or not...u might want to go to prevent this on happening...my bf makes me go even if me and his family dont like each other....i had to go to his G-pa's bday party and me and his neace werent getting along at that time but i still went cuz i love him and he asked me to go....so next time think about it...but if u have anymore questions just halla at ya chica i will love to help....*been there dont that....i know whats up with people both ways*

Peace in da middle east!

~Baby Brat

[Pocky]

I wouldn't use the term jealousy for this one. He just seems to be a little inconsiderate and I would explain to him that he needs to take you seriously. There is no reason why you should sit around his house waiting for him to return at a certain time and he not show up. He should have either called you and told you it's taking longer than he expected and to go ahead and do your own thing or tell his parents he needed to leave early. It was his brother's birthday so it may have been hard to get out of the family thing but he should have at least called you and told you that he'd be late so you could decide if you wanted to continue waiting or leave. Next time he tells you to wait at his house make sure he knows that he'll be back at a certain time, otherwise you two can meet up when he's done.

[eyehatesmilin]

u really have nothing to worry about as far as being jealous. he obviously really cares about u or wouldnt let u hang out @his house. however, he is in a relationship now and needs to realize that u r more than just a friend which is ok w/ a person being late. sometimes we have to make sacrifices 4 our honeys. i didnt really care 2 much bout hanging out w/ my guys rents but now that ive been w/ him 4 along time its cool. he will appreciate u so much more 4 doing something nice FOR HIM. u need 2 talk about the whole sit n let him know how u feel bout being left behind when u guys had plans. it ll all work out. dont u worry

[tanbark813]

I think this one is on both you guys. He should have called to give you an update if the plans with his parents had changed. But on the other hand, you can't really get upset about what they do if you choose to not go. If you're that upset about sitting at home alone, then suck it up and go with him next time.