rvjayoung Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 Hi, I have been married for 18 years and my wife, after a pastor who has counseled us on and off for a couple of years, told her it is time to begin to work on her stuff. She became angry and the next day she wanted to seperate! I went to stay with a friend and now she is talking divorce but she is hesitating to file papers. It's a long story but I do love her VERY much and we have 2 teenage daughtrers. During the seperation, I would get some beer after work to drink because I couldn't sleep (I stayed at home). I didn't get drunk but she is saying that is the reason for splitting up. This is very hard. Oh yeh, she just finished her degree just before the break up. She is 36. How can I win her back? I don't drink anymore but she doesn't want to talk. She will not commit to reconcliation but says she needs some space. Thanks all! Link to post Share on other sites
Author rvjayoung Posted August 7, 2004 Author Share Posted August 7, 2004 Oh Yeh I forgot to mention we have been seperated for 2 months. I did talk to her on the phone but she is angry for me calling her. Link to post Share on other sites
Samson Posted August 7, 2004 Share Posted August 7, 2004 Oh yeh, she just finished her degree just before the break up. rvjayoung, sometimes its the smallest thing, the tiny clue that is hidden and seemingly so insignificant that turns out to reveal the most about your little story. You might as well forget it bud. She's been planning this "escape" for some long time. While she may hesitate to pull the trigger, she has invested much in preparing to leave you. Link to post Share on other sites
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