Bryanna Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 Do I follow him? Or what? Link to post Share on other sites
noble Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 I dont know if you should necessarily FOLLOW him, but I definitely think you should "pop by" and sorta act like you are a little clueless. If I were you I would be like 'oh sweetie I didnt tell you because I really wanted to surprise you' and that way he wont suspect you're checking up on him. It sounds like he is acting strange, and I would say you should trust your gut. Theres no guarantee that he is or isnt cheating on you, but if he IS you have the opportunity to actually catch him at it, rather than spend the rest of your relationship always WONDERING if he was cheating on you that one weekend he didnt want you to come and visit.. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 Why bother. Just end it if he doesn't intend to make effort for you. Seems odd that you were the one always traveling to see him. Why wasn't he making that effort every weekend? He should have been! Link to post Share on other sites
GSB81 Posted November 24, 2012 Share Posted November 24, 2012 Do I follow him? Or what? If it will set your mind at ease, go ahead. His behavior is a red flag. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bryanna Posted November 24, 2012 Author Share Posted November 24, 2012 I have more flexibility in my work schedule. They always work on Saturdays. He comes down as well, it's just easier for me to go there timewise, he pays for my gas. Link to post Share on other sites
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