2 Years Of Bad Luck

[domple]

Early last year a 2 and a half year relationship ended, we were not right for each other and we went our separate ways. fast forward to last night I am still single (have had a couple of short term relationships) but all my friends girlfriends were talking about me and were puzzled as to why I am still single and all the bad luck that has come with it.

 

Since the breakup the following happened

- Performance managed out of a job

- My ankle gave in

- 5 wisdom teeth out (yes 5) all at once

- Breakup with a girl who is afraid to commit

- Back gave in

- Smashed my knee in

- Car accident

- Another car accident (not my fault)

- Break up with other girl because she had PTSD and that completly screwed with my mind

- Promoted at work then boss changed his mind an hour later because "its easier for things to stay the same"

- Car accident again and written off

 

My whole family, friends are just baffled with everything that has happened. I am a fun happy guy with good values and nothign seems to stick.

 

I had saved up $20K over the past 2 years to start a business and now that may be gone due to the accident.

 

On a positive note I wrote down my list of ideal partner a few months ago and BAM she appeared a month ago on eHarmony. Right down to the letter she is everything I want and dream about but right now I feel nothing. As this new girl says its everything that has hit me over the past couple of years. Yet I feel no chemistry for her and then I get clear snaps of "she really is great", but then again I feel nothing in general. So I might have to let her go not to hold her back.

 

I went to a therapist to deal with the PTSD girl as the whole situation mind screwed with me and she keeps telling me that I am fine and everything should change as i am doing everything the right way to get back on track.

 

I hate my life, I hate that nothing in my life is solid, I meet a girl who is amazing and all my friends say I do really like her and the way I look and talk with her its not just a friend thing, . I am not sure if anyone can give any advice, but anything would be appreciated at this point

[OpenBook]

Man you HAVE had quite a string of bad juju. I'm exhausted just reading it. Is it possible that you are trying to move too fast in your life? You sound ambitious with plenty of energy - those are awesome traits as long as you channel it well... but it can also be a wrecking machine. And then there's the way life is no matter what you do - a freaking rollercoaster. What goes up, must come down - and vice versa. It'll go back up for you. Sometimes you just have to hang on and pray the upswing will come around soon.