What do I do I have a ldr and my girl still likes her ex

[jsweffff]

Hey everyone me and my girl have been going out for 8 months as some of you know from my last post. Well recently she posted something on here that got me kind of mad well it had to do with her ex and her still liking him and what not well not liking him LOVING HIM. Well we don't see much of each other since we live so far apart and stuff 2hours away and her ex lives about 2 mins away. Well I have asked her since I read that y she wrote it and she stands her ground on not writting what was wrote if your wondering who wrote this is her sn InLoVeWiTh2 she's on cheating and flirting part of this site and the post is called I'm horible I don't know what to think anymore ok I really don't. In April she promised me she would never talk to her ex known as ray ever again and I said ok well in June she told me she had been talking to him for over two weeks and I was a little upset she had killed most of the trust I had put into her and my past relationship I had been cheated on and I was going very slow with putting trust in her and I just said she isn't like the other ones and I put all my trust in her and then it was shot once again when she did that. Well when I recently saw that post I was devestated and said ok its over I confronted her and she said she had never wrote that and said that she had talked to one of her so called freinds a couple of days ago and she became jealus and what not over my g/f when she is happy. So I don't know weather to believe my current g/f or not so can someone PLEASE HELP ME I don't know what to do.

[pitprincess]

wow.

My husband dont get on line at all. He dont do computers, hates them.

 

Sounds like your girl needs to figure out what she wants and let you know and not string you along if there is nothing there.

 

Bless your heart...

I hate that this happend to you like it has.

[Velveteel]

Your question is really whether to trust her, and risk a broken heart later, or not trust her, and break both your hearts right now, maybe for no good reason.

 

I say trust her. Tell her you have decided to trust her, that you are very suspicious because of your previous relationship, and that she'll have to be patient with you. If she wants to remain with you, she'll reassure you that she won't act on any feelings she still has for her ex.

 

(Many, many people still have feelings for their ex. That alone isn't a reason not to trust her.)

 

And do something wonderful for her right away. Show some love. You will probably get some in return.

 

Good luck.