koaxdaven Posted August 8, 2004 Share Posted August 8, 2004 hey. long story: my friend told me her friend thot i wuz reeli cute and started to like me a lot about 2 years ago. so we met and talked a lot but it never really got into becoming a relationship. then i said a relationship would never work out with us. so i forgot about her because i wasnt ready for a relationship and didnt share taht same feeling for her as she did for me. then, after about a year and a half of not speaking, we saw each other at a dance. immediately an attraction for her came over me when i saw her and from then on wanted to be with her feeling deep regret for leaving her before. Of course it turned out she didnt have that same attraction for me but for 3 and a half months i constantly talked to her but it didnt work out. So then, still liking her I met this other girl who told me she liked me. and i also liked her kinda. so we started going out and before you know it we were a couple and i wuz the happiest guy alive. but then after 3 or 4 weeks with this other girl, the girl i liked for so long came to mind and i felt a liking for her still. something that drew me to her that i couldnt help. for some reason i'm drawn to her and when i think of her i see us being together. can someone please tell me what to do....to stay with my current girlfriend or go for the one i will always have feelings for.... What do this mean? what is the message? Link to post Share on other sites
LolaLopez Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 I just think you have a thing for this 1st girl. That's normal and sometimes we can't always choose who we love. Unfortunately she does not have feelings like that for you. So you are dating someone else. Well, you really have to be fair to this girl #2 and not string her along while in reality you cannot have feelings for her b/c you are still hung up on girl#1. I think you need to not date for a while and explain why to girl#2. She'll be very grateful for your honesty and saving her from heartbreak. Then take some time to get over girl #1 who just wants to be friends. If you cannot just be friends, then it would be a really good idea to stop seeing her socially to help you get over it. Spend time with friends and with yourself. Try to think about what you really want in a relationship, or if you want one, and what kind of person you want and need in your life. Try to get your mind straight about this so that you know what you are looking for and can be discrimminating in your search for it. I don't know if there is a message here persay, I just think it is bad timing...it happpens all the time. Good luck Lola Link to post Share on other sites
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