stern727 Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 He comes to my house cheats on her with me and leaves, next few days she has a new present and thinks everythings wonderful, they may get marrid and all her wishes, her parents are moving closer to be near. Yet he's cheating and with me. They're both my so called friends or once were. I feel like puking afterwards everytime he leaves. Ad obviously he feels the same thus the presents he gives her. What is wrong with me, what is wrong with him. We've been screwing longer than there relationship of over a year but that don't matter. I want to tell her so it stops cause I don't think it will stop if it stays silent. But I don't want to tell her but I still want it to stop. I think I'm screwed and so is everyone else. I want to puke all the same but it keeps happening. Link to post Share on other sites
GSB81 Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 You make an excellent case for those of us who are uncomfortable with some of the friendships our SOs have. I'm sure she TRUSTS her boyfriend very much. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LittlePrince Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 He comes to my house cheats on her with me and leaves, next few days she has a new present and thinks everythings wonderful, they may get marrid and all her wishes, her parents are moving closer to be near. Yet he's cheating and with me. They're both my so called friends or once were. I feel like puking afterwards everytime he leaves. Ad obviously he feels the same thus the presents he gives her. What is wrong with me, what is wrong with him. We've been screwing longer than there relationship of over a year but that don't matter. I want to tell her so it stops cause I don't think it will stop if it stays silent. But I don't want to tell her but I still want it to stop. I think I'm screwed and so is everyone else. I want to puke all the same but it keeps happening. Stop having sex with him then. I doubt telling her will change anything except that you'll be barred from their lives and seen as the bad guy. Link to post Share on other sites
skywriter Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 (edited) He comes to my house cheats on her with me and leaves, next few days she has a new present and thinks everythings wonderful, they may get marrid and all her wishes, her parents are moving closer to be near. Yet he's cheating and with me. They're both my so called friends or once were. I feel like puking afterwards everytime he leaves. Ad obviously he feels the same thus the presents he gives her. What is wrong with me, what is wrong with him. We've been screwing longer than there relationship of over a year but that don't matter. I want to tell her so it stops cause I don't think it will stop if it stays silent. But I don't want to tell her but I still want it to stop. I think I'm screwed and so is everyone else. I want to puke all the same but it keeps happening. You have gotten yourself caught up in an awful web of deceit. You need to be the one to stop this. If it isn't bad enough that you are being used for a peice of a--, add to that, you'll be the one thrown under the bus if push comes to shove. He's showing you the kind of guy he is, by how he's treating you and the girlfriend, so believe it. If you take the bull by the horns and initiate the end of this, you'll come out feeling somewhat better about yourself having done so. Obviously, if you wait around for him to tire of this, you'll feel like you're a discarded peice of trash that was used. Do this for yourself and never put yourself in such a position again. You deserve better. Edited November 27, 2012 by skywriter ....and No, you can't remain friends with him! Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 He comes to my house cheats on her with me and leaves, next few days she has a new present and thinks everythings wonderful, they may get marrid and all her wishes, her parents are moving closer to be near. Yet he's cheating and with me. They're both my so called friends or once were. I feel like puking afterwards everytime he leaves. Ad obviously he feels the same thus the presents he gives her. What is wrong with me, what is wrong with him. We've been screwing longer than there relationship of over a year but that don't matter. I want to tell her so it stops cause I don't think it will stop if it stays silent. But I don't want to tell her but I still want it to stop. I think I'm screwed and so is everyone else. I want to puke all the same but it keeps happening. Really? You expect me to believe all of this? Come on.... Here's a 2x4 to the back of the head! You have all the power in the world to say NO!!!! Your a woman (I assume)! Women are masters at the word NO!! I hear it all the time from women! If he comes over, tell him NO!! And get the hell out of here! It's just that simple (even if you don't think that it is). Link to post Share on other sites
Trixis4kidz Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 And the problem here is. . . . Link to post Share on other sites
geegirl Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 (edited) I want to tell her so it stops cause I don't think it will stop if it stays silent. But I don't want to tell her but I still want it to stop. I think I'm screwed and so is everyone else. I want to puke all the same but it keeps happening. Really? You don't know how to say no? Stop holding up the helpless card. If you want it to stop, do it. The only reason you want to tell her is because you hope it'll provoke/force a decision, hoping she'll dump him and you'll get him. You didn't consider her when in the affair but now choose to drag her in to help you stop it? Speechless. Edited November 29, 2012 by geegirl Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted November 29, 2012 Share Posted November 29, 2012 If you have been having a relationship with him since before he had one with her...why isn't he marrying you and cheating with her? Link to post Share on other sites
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