jwhite Posted December 7, 2012 Share Posted December 7, 2012 Getting under someone else to get over someone HURTS EVERYBODY, YOU, the REBOUND, AND the EX. I was a rebound for my last ex. We were together 4.5 years and at some points we were strong. However, it was a rebound relationship no matter how long it was. If you like someone enough to have a relationship with them, rebound or not, there is some level of attraction there, emotionally and physically. BUT, is it clean? Is it wiped of all previous feelings and pure? I dont think so. There is no emotional gap for you. You have not had time to reflect, thus you are not whole. All you have done is fill a hole with something less than what it should be and are letting someone fill that hole for you. A compund effect is that your body(heart/mind/whatever) is learning that this works right now so the next time you will do the same....kinda like the cocain mouse. So, cocaine can go away, but if you fail to learn something as important as this, the hole is there FOREVER. You are not finding YOU again, you could not do a worse disservice for youself. Link to post Share on other sites
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