Weezy1973 Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 I pasted this three times because people keep ignoring this. Show me a group of men that have regular access to sex with hot girls. If half of them decide to get married and remain faithful- I will change my mind. Thing is, you wont be able to find that. Any guy who doesnt have options and says I would never do this I will not take you seriously. Case closed. I will say it again - If all men truly want to be players why would they spend their limited time and energy on marriage and family instead of on achieving player status through working out, getting rich, plastic surgery etc.? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 Yes. Plenty of women experience that kind of street harassment... walking down the road with friends and some guy yells out a car window," Hey fatso!" I don't get it AS often as I get comments when I try approaching a guy. That's when the insults really flow. And I already said that not a single man found me attractive or pursued me for 10 years before I got bitter. If I'm not ugly, and I wasn't bitter, please explain that. How did you and your boyfriend end up together? Link to post Share on other sites
Revolver Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 It's more than pointless, it's a retarded excuse for a reason to paint men as the fault-bearing bad guys. ( I sound like Dasein now). How many men can have no strings attached sex with multiple really attractive women at the same time? Lol at acting like dudes are just running through 9's and 10's on a whim every weekend. Lets be real about the situation and I acutally do pretty well, especially the last 2 years 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author verhrzn Posted November 28, 2012 Author Share Posted November 28, 2012 How did you and your boyfriend end up together? I forced him and he has no better options. But he leaves for grad school in a year... when he'll actually be around peers, intelligent, hot women his age. It's like this forum shows... guys will settle to get access to sex, and then upgrade when the opportunity presents itself. It's what happened in all of my other relationships. Why should this one be different? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author verhrzn Posted November 28, 2012 Author Share Posted November 28, 2012 I will say it again - If all men truly want to be players why would they spend their limited time and energy on marriage and family instead of on achieving player status through working out, getting rich, plastic surgery etc.? Because that's exhausting. Focusing on a marriage is easier than trying to get rich or working out enough to get a "hot" body. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 It's more than pointless, it's a retarded excuse for a reason to paint men as the fault-bearing bad guys. ( I sound like Dasein now). I don't get how people can paint the sex that they are attracted to in such a bad light. Yet continue to complain about not getting that sex. Why would they want these horrid creatures they paint them to be? I don't get it. If I hated guys so much as someone paint on l.s I would go a.sexual. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 I used to know a guy who bathed maybe once a week plus drank like a fish and abused all kinds of drugs. He also was a career criminal who made money doing god knows what but he always seemed to never women coming in and out of his motel room where he lived. If he can be a player anybody can. I tried out the player after my first marriage broke up and it wasn't for me. Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 How many men can have no strings attached sex with multiple really attractive women at the same time? Lol at acting like dudes are just running through 9's and 10's on a whim every weekend. Lets be real about the situation and I acutally do pretty well, especially the last 2 years More than people on the internet think. A lot more. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Negative Nancy Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 How many men can have no strings attached sex with multiple really attractive women at the same time? Lol at acting like dudes are just running through 9's and 10's on a whim every weekend. Lets be real about the situation and I acutally do pretty well, especially the last 2 years Very well said. Let's not pretend that men would be eager to settle down with an average girl if they had their pick of "9s" and "10s". In fact, if you eavedrop on men's conversations (or even use this forum as a means to get the unfiltered truth out of men), you will find that many of those who are with their average girlfriend lament about how they would love to bang more hot chicks and are sad that they don't have the opportunity to do so. Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 I forced him and he has no better options. But he leaves for grad school in a year... when he'll actually be around peers, intelligent, hot women his age. It's like this forum shows... guys will settle to get access to sex, and then upgrade when the opportunity presents itself. It's what happened in all of my other relationships. Why should this one be different? So you force guys into relationships. Since if what you are saying is true - you forced each and every one of your boyfriends -- then you complain they leave you for better? Do you see how fault your thinking is? Gosh - have some pride and stay single , forcing guys into relationships, why? Link to post Share on other sites
pbjbear Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 I will say it again - If all men truly want to be players why would they spend their limited time and energy on marriage and family instead of on achieving player status through working out, getting rich, plastic surgery etc.? Few people are able to become super rich. At least rich enough to be able to land tons of hot girls. Plastic surgery is expensive and girls arent as focused on looks...men getting plastic surgery is pointless unless they got deformed by an accident. Look at the stats in terms of gender on plastic surgery Plenty of men work out solely to get hot chicks. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 They do, but usually when they're older and lonely, specially if all their friends are settled. The majority of men in their twenties up to mid thirties aren't really relationship minded, a lot of them are in relationships just for sex. Another thing that might make a man want a relationship is a girl way out of her league. This is a BIG one! He will try to get her to commit because he might not be able to get any better. Mind you, that doesn't mean he will be a good or faithful partner. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
pbjbear Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 How many men can have no strings attached sex with multiple really attractive women at the same time? Lol at acting like dudes are just running through 9's and 10's on a whim every weekend. Lets be real about the situation and I acutally do pretty well, especially the last 2 years Not many...but why would I want to get involved with someone, get invested and give them all my good traits, knowing theyd degrade me if given better options? I spent my investment elsewhere Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 How exactly is she forcing these men into relationships? Are they not there of their own free will. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Revolver Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 Very well said. Let's not pretend that men would be eager to settle down with an average girl if they had their pick of "9s" and "10s". In fact, if you eavedrop on men's conversations (or even use this forum as a means to get the unfiltered truth out of men), you will find that many of those who are with their average girlfriend lament about how they would love to bang more hot chicks and are sad that they don't have the opportunity to do so. This. I just wish more people would keep it real. Why do we have to be so PC on the Internet? Lol at this alternate universe where most men are banging 10's left and right. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 How exactly is she forcing these men into relationships? Are they not there of their own free will. I don't even want to understand how that is possible. Unless she is considering someone who has sex with her as an relationship and just calling it a relationship but it really isn't. Since I don't know how that is even possible. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
pbjbear Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 They do, but usually when they're older and lonely, specially if all their friends are settled. The majority of men in their twenties up to mid thirties aren't really relationship minded, a lot of them are in relationships just for sex. Another thing that might make a man want a relationship is a girl way out of her league. This is a BIG one! He will try to get her to commit because he might not be able to get any better. Mind you, that doesn't mean he will be a good or faithful partner. If a guy cannot be a player he will settle for the best he can get. Men are not capable of true love. Relationships are a waste of time. I feel sorry for girls that waste so much of themselves on men. I am not even bitter in the slightest 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author verhrzn Posted November 28, 2012 Author Share Posted November 28, 2012 So you force guys into relationships. Since if what you are saying is true - you forced each and every one of your boyfriends -- then you complain they leave you for better? Do you see how fault your thinking is? Gosh - have some pride and stay single , forcing guys into relationships, why? If I stayed single, would you people FINALLY just admit I'm ugly and give me some goddamn sympathy? Link to post Share on other sites
Negative Nancy Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 They do, but usually when they're older and lonely, specially if all their friends are settled. The majority of men in their twenties up to mid thirties aren't really relationship minded, a lot of them are in relationships just for sex. Another thing that might make a man want a relationship is a girl way out of her league. This is a BIG one! He will try to get her to commit because he might not be able to get any better. Mind you, that doesn't mean he will be a good or faithful partner. Quoted for truth. Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 You're wasting your time. Fortunately I have time to waste . Seriously though, I get this sh*t in real life from some girls too, about all men being cheaters and players and all that sh*t. I've got to the stage where I just tell them to eat a dick and die. Link to post Share on other sites
Revolver Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 If a guy cannot be a player he will settle for the best he can get. Men are not capable of true love. Relationships are a waste of time. I feel sorry for girls that waste so much of themselves on men. I am not even bitter in the slightest Now that's where I disagree. I think your taking this a little to far Link to post Share on other sites
Author verhrzn Posted November 28, 2012 Author Share Posted November 28, 2012 You're approaching retards. Although I wouldn't take you home, I (can only speak for me) would have no problem chatting up even the hunchback of notredam (if it was a she). Can't tell you anything more. You were bullied and disgraced many times, but instead of rising above it, you drowned in it, and in the end it made YOU a lesser person overall. And you think you got it so bad. In the end V (and I will try to make this my last comment on this thread) your bitterness is still not helping, only hurting you. You must realize that. God, you have an answer for everything. "Approach real men." "You're approaching retards." I am approaching real men.... I assure you, they are not imaginary. Nor were they "retards." They were just honest. Please tell me, o Wise One, what a non-retarded, "real" man looks like? The truth is, guys aren't attracted to me REGARDLESS of my personality, but it seems to offend LS to admit such a thing. Maybe you all think you'll burst into flames or something. Link to post Share on other sites
pbjbear Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 I don't even want to understand how that is possible. Unless she is considering someone who has sex with her as an relationship and just calling it a relationship but it really isn't. Since I don't know how that is even possible. She didnt force him. But men get into relationships for regular sex. Not saying they dont enjoy the companionship but the regular sex is the motivating factor. Men without options tend to do this more since it is the only way for them to get consistent sex 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 If I stayed single, would you people FINALLY just admit I'm ugly and give me some goddamn sympathy? How about you explain how you force someone in a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted November 28, 2012 Share Posted November 28, 2012 If a guy cannot be a player he will settle for the best he can get. I am not even bitter in the slightest Yes you are. As a former gender hater I know one when I see one. If men aren't capable of real love how do you explain the men who have jumped in front of bullets to save their women? If giving your life isn't true love I don't know what is. Link to post Share on other sites
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