Devastated, boyfriend cheated with ex, now baby?

[Ser_de_lluvia]

I'm devastated, my bf confessed last night that he cheated on me in August and his ex told him in September she's pregnant. He doesn't have any pregnancy tests or bloodwork or sonograms and after he went into prison in October she cut him off, changed her number, and once he got out in early November she filed a restraining order against him! His parole dictates he can't have contact with her until after 23 months. I spoke to her via text last weekend and she noted she vehemently hates him she never wants to see him again and has found someone new that "likes her for her". Nothing about a baby (and believe me it would have been the first thing out if her mouth since she's convinced he cheated on her with me). My concern is after 23 months if there's a kid, he'd be hit with child support (however I don't know why that wasn't part of her lawsuit against him!). Something is fishy here...from my mind, I think she either had an abortion or a false positive. Cutting him out of her life and not requesting child support doesn't fit.

 

My personal concern is he only wants one kid and if she is, them that's it, no more. What should I do? We have limited options because if he's anywhere near her he'll go back to jail in violation. Thanks in advance

 

As for the cheating? Therapy is imminent

[WhatYouWantToHear]

What should I do?

 

Short Answer: Run

 

Long Answer: Fast

[KatZee]

So you have a boyfriend that cheats with his exes, UNPROTECTED, and who does time in prison.

 

Class act you have here. I wouldn't even bother with therapy. This is the trash you wish to be with? I'm sure you can do better than this.

 

If the story doesn't make sense, it's because you're missing parts of it. I'm sure there's a reason for the restraining order. I'm sure there's much you don't know. Never underestimate the lies of a cheater.