Sisyphus2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 do these 10 things, and a man will eventually, leave, cheat on you or both. 1. Whenever something doesnt go your way pout, give husband silent treatment. 2. Value your sleep more than intimacy with your husband. Its too early, or its too late. 3. Present perplexing reasons why you cant be intimate with your husband, I just got out of the shower, I need to take a shower, I have a headache, I dont feel good, Im on my period, i didnt shave, I feel fat, I am not on my period but I feel like I am. I gave it to you last week. my tv program is on. (we dont care) 4. Reject sexual advances 5. Never initiate intimacy 6. Stop honoring agreements you made. 7. Start whining about when he breaks his agreements. 8. Lie about money you spent 9. be critical of his free time, while having no constraints on yours. 10. Fail to realize that when you cut off your husband from sex because you don't feel like it, you are also cutting him off and he does feel like it. You are making the decision for both of you, at least for now, while he is still with you.
worldgonewrong Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 11. Eat the last Eskimo Pie in the freezer. 7
jf2good Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Well even with all that she still gets the house, alimony, and the kids and you finally get screwed in the end but not the type that you needed. Smile so you don't cry. 1
standtall Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 (edited) 6 out of 10 are about sex....Is there something that you want to discuss? Edited November 29, 2012 by standtall
Troubled1 Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Is there a reason your wife does not want sex with you? Is it possible her behavior is stemming from feelings being hurt in the past?
aMguilts Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 do these 10 things, and a man will eventually, leave, cheat on you or both. 1. Whenever something doesnt go your way pout, give husband silent treatment. 2. Value your sleep more than intimacy with your husband. Its too early, or its too late. 3. Present perplexing reasons why you cant be intimate with your husband, I just got out of the shower, I need to take a shower, I have a headache, I dont feel good, Im on my period, i didnt shave, I feel fat, I am not on my period but I feel like I am. I gave it to you last week. my tv program is on. (we dont care) 4. Reject sexual advances 5. Never initiate intimacy 6. Stop honoring agreements you made. 7. Start whining about when he breaks his agreements. 8. Lie about money you spent 9. be critical of his free time, while having no constraints on yours. 10. Fail to realize that when you cut off your husband from sex because you don't feel like it, you are also cutting him off and he does feel like it. You are making the decision for both of you, at least for now, while he is still with you. all your values of what you think you see, is not HER fault. it`s yours. 1 so she gives you the silent treatment? let her get on with it!!! 2,3,4 and 5 . she doesn`t want sex with you 6,7,8 and 9.. thats something between both of you 10 she doesn`t want sex with you. Being vindictive or negative will get you no where. learning to improove yourself will benefit you a great deal thou. Maybe she just had a low sex drive? don`t take it personally. Doesn`t mean she loves you less. You just wern`t compatible, aM 1
aMguilts Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 i counted 5 although i guess number 1 could be in that too aM
aMguilts Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 You sure seem to be hung up on sex. Who aint??? aM 1
aMguilts Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Sisyphus2012 sorry You will get a lot of backlash from a post like that. There`s a lot on your mind and it seems you need to just lash out? i really do understand. I`m the `black sheep` amongst most of the `regular` posters here, who do seem to be a bit thick headed and stuck in their ways. The way you went about your post was not the right way thou. Need to vent? thats fine Maybe re word it, not ALL women are the same. Big hug aM
aMguilts Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 (edited) 11. Eat the last Eskimo Pie in the freezer. jeeez, help the guy or not, cant believe this got 3 likes. seen a lot of that, it`s not nice , we`re supposed to be helping? # aM Edited November 29, 2012 by aMguilts
standtall Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 My bad..I miscounted...it was 5. Still, it seems to dominate the list.
worldgonewrong Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 jeeez, help the guy or not, cant believe this got 3 likes. Lighten up, aM. Sometimes humor can leaven some of the crushing sadness.
Minka333 Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 I'd like to add a few: 11. Become a boring person. Act uninterested about anything and everything he says. Start saying "meh" to him all the time and just keep yawning and yawning. 12. Keep looking at the clock when he is having sex with you. Make him feel he is wasting your precious time. 13. Always remind him you can do better anytime so he better behave.
Author Sisyphus2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Author Posted November 30, 2012 yeah alot of this is about sex. Im a man, in case you hadn't figured this out. I am pretty easy to figure out.
wheream_i Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 (edited) You sure seem to be hung up on sex. Oh, give me a f*cking break. There's another thread by Ruby Slippers about how she's not on the same page sexually with her SO. Not many people gave her a hard time. Be an adult and accept that sex is important as the attention she craves. For a Realist, you're not very realistic, are you? Edited November 30, 2012 by wheream_i
Ninja'sHusband Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 I've got another one: -accuse your fiercely loyal husband throughout your 13 year relationship of cheating on you or cheat on your fiercely loyal husband of 13 years....and get pregnant, not knowing who the father is. Then lie and say you only had sex once, then refuse to stop going to class with said guy. Hahaha, wanna guess what my story is?
wheream_i Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 BUT the truth is, that when sex isn't a problem it's only a small part of the marriage, but when it becomes a problem it impacts nearly the rest of the entire relationship. Great point! 1
pteromom Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 6. Stop honoring agreements you made. 7. Start whining about when he breaks his agreements. These are contradictory. If she is whining about him breaking his agreements, then he broke #6 himself. Or do these ONLY apply to women?
Author Sisyphus2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Author Posted November 30, 2012 Sisyphus2012 sorry You will get a lot of backlash from a post like that. There`s a lot on your mind and it seems you need to just lash out? i really do understand. I`m the `black sheep` amongst most of the `regular` posters here, who do seem to be a bit thick headed and stuck in their ways. The way you went about your post was not the right way thou. Need to vent? thats fine Maybe re word it, not ALL women are the same. Big hug aM its all good. i dont get offended. I am thick headed and stuck in my ways too. i am not worried about offending anyone either, if you read it and you dont like it say so. im good with whatever.
pteromom Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 10. Fail to realize that when you cut off your husband from sex because you don't feel like it, you are also cutting him off and he does feel like it. You are making the decision for both of you, at least for now, while he is still with you. The reverse is true too. If a man insists on sex when she doesn't want to, he is making the decision for both of them as well. "I have a headache" is a cliche, but headaches can be brutal. As can menstrual cramps. Nobody should be forced to have sex when they feel terrible. It is much healthier to BOTH be willing to compromise sometimes. 1
Author Sisyphus2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Author Posted November 30, 2012 i think this has to do with consistency. my wife would constantly break her agreements, but then look for any inconsistency in my agreements and complain. 1
Author Sisyphus2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Author Posted November 30, 2012 Lighten up, aM. Sometimes humor can leaven some of the crushing sadness. its not all that crushing because i dont like eskimo pies.
pteromom Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 i think this has to do with consistency. my wife would constantly break her agreements, but then look for any inconsistency in my agreements and complain. So really, it's more about not having double-standards. I get it.
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