aboehme Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 What should I do?... keep in mind im 20 hes 25 6 years ago i met this guy andy and we had the best summer ever we were perfect, but then i had to move. now 6 years later i found him and we've reunited (Wednesday August 4th) we went out to dinner and hit it off like nothing had ever changed. at the end of that night i went to give him a hug and found myself kissing him instead and there was a definate bond. the next day (Thursday August 5th) he called me around 4 pm and we got to talking and he said he wanted to be completly honest and that for the last week or so hes been trying to go back to his ex but was unsure if it was the right thing to be doing and with me here now its making him think alot more. So i thought that was it we would never be. On Friday he called me and said he'd like to see me this weekend. I told him Sunday morning would be best. We went to breakfast and even though neither of us goes to church we decided to go to a small local church for there hour service as though we were a couple. It was weird at first but it made me feel closer to him. by the after noon we were going to part ways and before i left i went to hug him and promised not to kiss him again. he then wispered in my ear do you ever break promises. obviously i mad a comment and yes we had another moment. what should i do about this how should i go about it please someone help :confused: [size=0] Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 Well there really isn't anything YOU can do. It's up to him if he goes back to his ex or not. If I were you I'd be a little concerned that he's not "feeling this out" maybe he's "working on" the relationship he's trying to get back into and hanging on to you in case it doesn't work out. I guess all you can do is wait out the situation, be his friend but respect his feelings. Personally I wouldn't want to wait around, if he wants to try and begin something with you then he should take time and see you w/out trying to hook back up with his ex but if you don't mind then I guess it could work out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author aboehme Posted August 9, 2004 Author Share Posted August 9, 2004 thanks... im currently in a relationship well sort of ive been trying to get outof the lease because me and him wasted a long time being together we just not happy. now for andy i told him i would rather be his friend than to lose him a second time i havent asked too many questions but that was the 2nd time i saw him in 7 years so i would love to be with him but if not i do want a friendship with him no matter what happens... but thanks for your advise Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 You're welcome............... Okay since you are also in a relationship you should just be friends with this guy until both of you get your lives together (figuring out who you want I mean) If you're not careful this is going to end up as a "I'm the OW is he gonna leave his GF for me" post! Only it's worse because you are involved too. Just be honest with everyone no matter what ends up happening. Link to post Share on other sites
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