Feeling Guilty

[UpToStandard]

Hello, hopefully someone here can help me get over the guilt I'm feeling.

Recently I went back to my home town and met up with my ex whom had changed in such a way that I was considering taking her back. Before I left I threw the idea out there but nothing was official.

 

Upon arriving back home after a couple of days I managed to sleep with a girl. Getting her into bed felt wrong but I went through it anyway. The whole thing felt weird and after all was said and I done I felt terrible and frankly didn't enjoy it in the least. The next day rolls around and I make up my mind after the previous night that I truly wanted to be with my ex and I proceeded to do just that.

 

I just feel guilty now because I had sex with another girl so recently before getting back with her and the last thing I want to do is hurt her. Part of me feels that I should tell her though I know pretty darn well it will ruin everything but at the same time I feel it doesn't matter because maybe that was the push I really needed to make up my mind and in the end I truly regretted what I had done.

 

Maybe this all sounds silly to worry about but it truly bothers me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

[joli_doll]

I agree that telling her can hurt your chances. I don't think it is necessary to disclose this encounter, provided you were not in a relationship with her at the time. Especially since you didn't feel a connection, enjoy it, and now regret it.

[magnoliasoutherly]

I just feel guilty now because I had sex with another girl so recently before getting back with her

That right there is key. You weren't in a relationship yet again. You've nothing to feel guilty about.

 

I wouldn't mention it to her though. It meant nothing, it's over. That's the main thing.