Author frederickkk Posted December 6, 2012 Author Share Posted December 6, 2012 **** it, i might just get the train tomorrow and knock on her door. I cant move on from this. the pain is too great. i dont need therapy for my emotions. they are real, clear as day, and i can either stay in this grey area of hope or sink in depression realising its over. Link to post Share on other sites
NavyAirTraffic Posted December 6, 2012 Share Posted December 6, 2012 im not going to chase her. and i need to focus on me now. (From your original thread) Don't listen to these guys, I think you're doing great, keep it up!! 4 months of emailing her and I think your making progress. My situation is kinda similar. My ex emailed me last week asking me to come back, and how she missed me, how she made a mistake. I'm glad she doesn't know I was getting a bj from the girl I'm seeing while I read her email. Keep it up Fred Link to post Share on other sites
Renard99 Posted December 6, 2012 Share Posted December 6, 2012 I cant move on from this. the pain is too great. So don't. You need to accept that you will be like this forever and simply live with it and not complain about the way it makes you feel. This is the way it will always be from now on and is, therefore, normal for you. We can no longer help you as the vast majority of our experience is all about how to move on, not how to stay exactly where you are. By actively chosing not to move on you have chosen your own path, one that we know nothing about. I'm sorry. You need help from elsewhere. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
spaniard Posted December 6, 2012 Share Posted December 6, 2012 "she gave me mixed messages over a coffee back in october" But now is december, she doesn't reply your mails, she doesn't give a damn about you. IT IS A GOOD SIGN, SHE IS PROBABLY IN LOVE WITH YOU! Link to post Share on other sites
Sav Posted December 6, 2012 Share Posted December 6, 2012 "she gave me mixed messages over a coffee back in october" But now is december, she doesn't reply your mails, she doesn't give a damn about you. IT IS A GOOD SIGN, SHE IS PROBABLY IN LOVE WITH YOU! Of Course she's in love with him. Can't you see she's playing hard to get? Link to post Share on other sites
Author frederickkk Posted June 17, 2013 Author Share Posted June 17, 2013 i dont know what to do. ive blown thousands drinking trying to get over her. i love her like in no way ive loved someone before. it wont die. Link to post Share on other sites
landshark Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 i dont know what to do. ive blown thousands drinking trying to get over her. i love her like in no way ive loved someone before. it wont die. It won't die because the drinking keeps you in it! Sure alcohol will dull the pain but then it comes back. My ex left me in December, shattered my heart into a thousand pieces. I am just now getting better because I've been in NC for six weeks. Prior to that I was metting up with her occasionally and held out false hope. She invited me to her graduation and I asked her to go skiing. She blew me off, owing it to some bogus injury, and I found out that she was seeing someone. I got together with her and confronted her and she admitted to seeing someone but that she still wanted me to go to her graduation with the bf who said it was ok with him. Are you serious? Went into NC and had one slipup six weeks ago. Do it, man, NC is the ONLY solution, but if you keep drinking your progress will grind to a halt. Go talk to some girls, flirt, be yourself before this ****storm happened. You can do it, it sucks, I'm in your shoes, but it will get better if you take control. And let me know how you do... Link to post Share on other sites
landshark Posted June 17, 2013 Share Posted June 17, 2013 If you kick her behind out of your mind... Link to post Share on other sites
Mack05 Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 i dont know what to do. ive blown thousands drinking trying to get over her. i love her like in no way ive loved someone before. it wont die. MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL....Why do I bother, like talking to my ex..Futile and pointless..See you in a year Fred.. Link to post Share on other sites
SuperGeek Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 Now THIS is the way to move on! (From your original thread) Don't listen to these guys, I think you're doing great, keep it up!! 4 months of emailing her and I think your making progress. My situation is kinda similar. My ex emailed me last week asking me to come back, and how she missed me, how she made a mistake. I'm glad she doesn't know I was getting a bj from the girl I'm seeing while I read her email. Keep it up Fred Link to post Share on other sites
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