She keeps telling me she loves me. But she wont leave her husband

[ugi]

Been in an affair with a married woman for two years. Shortly after the affair began she became pregnant and even though we have yet to have dna done. The baby really looks like me. She has told me for along time that she was going to leave her husband. But of coarse she still hasn't. I too am in a relationship of sorts. We have two children and pretty much are only still together for them. Im completely in love with the "other" woman. And,I want nothing more than to have a real chance at a real relationship with her. My current is aware of my cheating and has a good idea about the other child being mine. Yes she hates me. The "other"woman womans husband is clueless and believes the child is his. Yup big messed up mess. Any ideas what I should do here? Don't want to let go of the woman I love. But deep down I know she is to afraid to leave her husband and tell him the truth about the baby.

[GSB81]

She's just playing with you, if she really loved you and believed she had a future with you she would have left her husband already. That said, you have NO business messing around with another man's wife, especially with a little family of your own. This won't end well for you. Worst case scenario, you lose your current woman and your 2 kids, your affair drops you, and her husband gives you a beating. Then you're left knowing you probably have a kid who will never know you being raised by a guy who should by all rights be its father. The final result, you will be all alone because you pursued forbidden fruit.

[Bryanna]

Oh! What an awful, mixed up situation. I would advise you to take a step back, from both women. You have two children with a woman, that sounds like that relationship is a disaster, I believe the other may love you, but you have proven to her you cheat, as does she. You think her baby is yours, I think she is smart to stay put right now. You have not left your arrangement, you fathered 2 children and never married their mother. She may love you, but as a woman, you offer no security. Right now she is with a man who cared enough to man up and marry her. For her to leave, what are you offering? You will be paying child support already on two kids. I'm sorry to be so harsh. But you must handle your own life and business first. Can you afford to support her and all these kids? Cuz trust me, if her hubby is providing a decent home and you can't? No way she leaves. Sorry but a woman will protect her children. Just my opinion.

[plee61]

Have you discussed a "family plan" with her? A relationship that is not practical is destined to fail. She probably happier to stay current with her marriage and seeing you on and off.

[Chi townD]

One post with a really screwed up story asking how to get with a married woman. *sniff* *sniff* Yep! I'm smelling a troll....