mysticlover Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 I know this may sound stupid coming from a 40+ year old woman, but I am rusty on things like this. There is a man at work who has a hard time not staring at me. I've caught him many times. He has winked at me many times, he has called me baby, we have locked eyes too many times to count, he is nervous around me, he has made prolonged eye contact with me, so long that I had to look away. He speaks softly to me when we are having a conversation. From the moment we met, we have stared at each other. The very first vibe I got from him was that he wanted to mess around. The problem I'm having is that I was married for 20 years and sometimes think I am reading too much into the situation. Does it really sound like he is interested in me or am I just crazy? Link to post Share on other sites
GSB81 Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 Sounds like it to me! How does he act around other women? Link to post Share on other sites
Author mysticlover Posted December 5, 2012 Author Share Posted December 5, 2012 He's kind of flirty, but doesn't share the eye contact with other women like he does me. We are also nervous around each other. I think it is sexual tension, but again I am rusty on things like this. It has been MANY years since I have found myself in this type of situation. Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted December 5, 2012 Share Posted December 5, 2012 Ask him if he would like to take you lunch. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted December 5, 2012 Share Posted December 5, 2012 I think having that age thing happening where when you were dating it was so obvious when a guy liked you because they basically told you or made physical contact....after all the books that have been published and circulating about asking women out it has gone backwards i tell ya....guys are 100 per cent more unsure of asking women out.....maybe its the increase of sexual harrasment being thrown around that they dont touch women anymore or as much to show interest..a hand on the back, on the arm or actual physical closeness...that women are now supposed to instigate when they are attracted to someone......so you have this mix of unsure women and unsure men and dating becomes a minefield of maybes and uncertainty....when i used to date it was so simple....the man asked you out you said yay or nay and men took nay in their stride.......and they persisted sometimes....or they moved on...... its too hard to tell these days when a nice guy likes you......or doesnt like you.......but from what you have written it sounds like he does like you........i would think that.....but then i am 40 plus too...and I have thought there was a spark when the spark was purely mine and mine alone....i wish you all the best and hope that your nice guy and you end up dating.....keep me updated.....it would give me a smile.....i have my fingers crossed....lol......the only guys who seem forward in coming forward now are the players who have read to many pua books and then they play games with you....i am tired of players they bore me...i hope you get your nice guy...deb Link to post Share on other sites
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