lovingu Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 I like this guy from my class, but i am kinda embarassed to talk to him.So, my friends let him know that I am into him.He told my friends that he's gonna talk to me. So, yesterday, he came in late and sat near me, and looked at me. He seemed like he wanna talk to me. But, I didn't even look him back coz i was too nervous+i was taking the test. Then, he left the class early. When i got out from the class, i told his friend to call him that I was waiting for him in the library coz i wanna talk to him. Then, I gave my # to his friend. Later, he came to the library and we talked like an hour. He's so nice and friendly. I let him know that i like him(my friends think letting him know that i like him is wrong). He didn't say anything but looked at me and smiled.Then, he said he tried to talk to me these days but i was running away from him .He said if he were me and if he like someone , he would talk to that person instead of telling him that i like him.i felt so stupid. I told him that i didn't have a chance to talk to him coz he always comes in late and i get out from the class early, + i got too nervous in front of him. Then, he told me abt his work and family, and asked me abt my family and stuffs. It is a friendly conversation.Then, he told me abt his work and how many hours he works, and he told me that he has no time to have a gf coz of his work+school. So, i told him that all i want is to be his friend.Then, we exchanged our #s. I really like this guy. I am so into him .But, I think he's not interested in me:(. Do u think i should call him first? what should i do? I can't eat , I can't sleep, and i even cry coz i feel really sad!Do uguys think letting him know that i like him is wrong? Please help me. What should i do? I can't do anything because I think abt him all the time, and i feel bad. P.S . I am 19yrs old/Asian, and he's 23yrs old/Spanish. Link to post Share on other sites
o0lovindrama0o Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 In a mature relationship one does not, I repeat, DOES NOT have her friends do any mediating in her romances! There is no reason to be nervous around him or anything of that sort because the worst thing that could happen is that he could tell you that he doesn't have the same feelings for you, in which case you will be no worse off than you started; better maybe, for having dealt with a minor rejection. It is important that you tell him that you have romantic feelings for him so that he does not get the wrong impression or idea that you are a.) looking for a friend, or, b.) looking for a one time hookup. So take that chance! And don't cry over him! No guy is worth that! Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovingu Posted August 10, 2004 Author Share Posted August 10, 2004 i got nervous whenever i talk to him .so, my friends let him know abt that. I dunno what to do. do u think i should call him? i am really sad coz i am so into him. please help me ( I can't eat, i can't sleep, i even cry, and i failed the test! I am really sad all i want is to be his friend. Link to post Share on other sites
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