TiffanyD Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 So I recently got married because we had a baby together. I had tried to tell my husbands parents that I wasn't ready to get married that I felt rushed. When I confronted them about it they told me I was being very immature. Now I have been married for two months and it been hell. He will not let me leave the apartment to go anywhere. i do mot have my liscence nor a car. he controls who i talk to and for how long, he controls my money and where i spend it. Whenever my husband is home we fight constantly and sometimes it gets physical. He spends most of his days off either in the bathroom or on his lhone looking up porn. I don't think our daughter needs to see us fight like this at such a young age but whenever I try to talk to my husband about divorce he just poo poo's it off and says that we can fix it by ourselves. I have suggested marriage counseling but he said he will not go. I have even told him that I do not love him. But whenever I tell him I want a divorce he says no. Are there any suggestions? Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted December 3, 2012 Share Posted December 3, 2012 Suggestions? Yeah....get out. Especially if it's becoming violent. There isn't love if you're striking each other. If he's unwilling to work the issues. Doesn't want to go to counseling....well, what more can you do. Time to move on. And get out. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MrVegas Posted December 4, 2012 Share Posted December 4, 2012 Full on agreement with the other 2 here. If it's abusive in any sense, especially physical, then you need out, and your child. Look up a local shelter and contact them, they will help you leave. Neither you nor your child should be in that situation. Get yourself and your child safe, then look at your legal options. Annulment may be available, and child support is in order. Good luck to you, stay safe. Link to post Share on other sites
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