MM and gifts

[MissBee]

Stop jumping to conclusions.. about the salary thing, it didn't come up directely and he has never said exactely what he makes.

The reason I know it anyway, is because I read about the salary level ( which is rediculously high) in the newspaper + we have also talked about it indirectely when I asked him how one could climb as high up the career ladder as him. The reason I mentioned the salaries was in reply to another post where it was asked whether I was eighter much younger than him or less wealthy.

Its really same with the jewellery thing, it was a comment made to something else we were talking about.

 

I'm not sure if you're simply back-pedaling because you don't like what is being said/implied; however, you made this topic and you're the one who titled it "MM and Gifts" and brought up if it was normal for a man to say/do the stuff your MM is doing. So I'm not sure why now you're making it seem as though all these things were "side events", when the entire topic is about a MM who is putting gifts/money/material things forward.

 

Perhaps I am thoroughly confused, but what is the topic about and what were you trying to get input on, if I've jumped to conclusions about him being a tacky man because you've said he's done these things? If all these were side events, why a whole topic on the issue of MM and gifts? Why did you find it noteworthy enough to receive LS input on it

[Mrs.Dee]

I'm not sure if you're simply back-pedaling because you don't like what is being said/implied; however, you made this topic and you're the one who titled it "MM and Gifts" and brought up if it was normal for a man to say/do the stuff your MM is doing. So I'm not sure why now you're making it seem as though all these things were "side events", when the entire topic is about a MM who is putting gifts/money/material things forward.

 

Perhaps I am thoroughly confused, but what is the topic about and what were you trying to get input on, if I've jumped to conclusions about him being a tacky man because you've said he's done these things? If all these were side events, why a whole topic on the issue of MM and gifts? Why did you find it noteworthy enough to receive LS input on it

And I am not sure whether you say this just because you were mistaken about how this all happened.

 

But yes I was wondering what it meant to be offered expensive stuff from a MM who is very eager to have an affair with you.

[MissBee]

And I am not sure whether you say this just because you were mistaken about how this all happened.

 

But yes I was wondering what it meant to be offered expensive stuff from a MM who is very eager to have an affair with you.

 

What do you think it means?

 

I already told you what I think it means.

 

You're saying he's offering you expensive stuff because he is eager for an affair...how is your description different from how I pegged him? As a man who attempts to bed women by putting his material assets forward...and I personally find that tacky and would be insulted by a man who either used it as a first or last resort.

 

Understand that you're free to feel differently. If it's not bothersome to you, that's fine. But I don't think I've mistaken what you've said...I just have an interpretation of this behavior as tacky. I'm not quite sure how you see it. How do you see this behavior? I know you asked what we think it means..but you yourself must have your own hypothesis of what this type of thing means.

[Mrs.Dee]

What do you think it means?

 

I already told you what I think it means.

 

You're saying he's offering you expensive stuff because he is eager for an affair...how is your description different from how I pegged him? As a man who attempts to bed women by putting his material assets forward...and I personally find that tacky and would be insulted by a man who either used it as a first or last resort.

 

Understand that you're free to feel differently. If it's not bothersome to you, that's fine. But I don't think I've mistaken what you've said...I just have an interpretation of this behavior as tacky. I'm not quite sure how you see it. How do you see this behavior? I know you asked what we think it means..but you yourself must have your own hypothesis of what this type of thing means.

I don't really know what it means, that was why I asked here and I think you guys might actually be right about the whole suger daddy thing or at least at some point in time.

BUT I was just explaining that he didn't really BRAG about his salary, as you thought he did earlier .

 

The thought of me beeing bought is so rediculous that I didnt even get offended, I just felt a little sad about it.

[MissBee]

There have always been men out there who will try to buy a woman with gifts and presents, and yes there are women who will let them. IMO, it's sleazy and I don't want someone in my life who thinks they can ply me and manipulate me with gifts and presents. The fact that this guy is married makes it even more sleazy, but perhaps this sort of lifestyle appeals to you. Does it?

 

I second LG's query.

 

I'm young, but know enough to know the game, and know that this is how some men are. I'm not sure Mrs.Dee if you're saying that you are completely unaware that some men try to lure women with money? I don't think you could possibly be saying that...so I'm wondering if you're really aksing us what it means because you have no idea, or if you want to know what it means FOR YOU?

 

I'm also unsure about whether or not you find this appealing or not. It seems on one hand that you do; yet, on the other you say you don't. Yet you're saying you don't know if you want an A...

 

The facts are: this man wants an affair. You know this. He has been trying. You haven't given in (but have not shut him down either, else he is still trying as he feels he may have a chance, and from the fact you think about him/this enough to post here and you say you have a connection and are attracted he probably does have a chance). He has now resorted to offering expensive gifts to get you to agree.

 

So how do you feel about that? Is it romantic, cute, sleazy, tempting to you or what? And do you want the affair? Your topic is more focused on the gifts and not just about a MM trying to have an affair---as many MM try to have affairs without bringing up gifts---so be truthful with us, are you enamored by possibly getting these nice gifts and are you considering an A?

[Mrs.Dee]

There have always been men out there who will try to buy a woman with gifts and presents, and yes there are women who will let them. IMO, it's sleazy and I don't want someone in my life who thinks they can ply me and manipulate me with gifts and presents. The fact that this guy is married makes it even more sleazy, but perhaps this sort of lifestyle appeals to you. Does it?

what kind of lifestyle is that?

[2sure]

Gifts , money, vacations...if a man is able to supply those things and typically does give them , or share them with people he cares about....then yes, I would expect he would want to give them to OW as well.