Reggie R Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 Hello everyone. Ok, here's the breakdown I'm in college. There's this girl who was in my biology class who I really wanted to go out with some time. I started talking with her a few classes on and off, a pretty good conversation when I got the opportunity. So one night after class she comes in half-way late because she just got back from Portland about an hour away. I ask her if she wants to go out to grab a coffee just on the fly. She says she was tired from her trip, and she was going to get some rest. Not to mention she has 4 summer classes which she talks about alot, so it was understandable if she really did want to rest. About 2 or so weeks later, I swing by her work one day just to pop in and say hello. She seemed pleasanty surprised when I walked in (could've just been me, but im pretty sure), I smile back and easily get a conversation going. So i'm just talkin' making her laugh, tell her I just swung by to say hello, then I ask her if she wants to grab a bite after work. She's like why don't you swing by after you finish shopping (her work is in the mall.) and maybe we can. So things are lookin' good, and I stop by after I finish looking around. She says she just talked to some friends and they were planning on going out after work, which was understandable considering it was a Friday, and the evening was near. After that, she takes my number in case anything changes, which is usually the deathgrip on my chances, considering she has my number, she wouldn't ever have to deal with me asking for hers, etc, etc. I'm like alright, tough luck. I Still talked to her a small amount, and class ended about 2 weeks later. Friday though, I leave another class early (about an hour and a half early), and decide to goto the mall to see a movie. I'm standing outside the movies looking at what's good to see, and I run into her and we were like, "Hey, what's up.", and I just start chatting again to see what she's up to. She was on her mini 5-10 or so break to grab a smoothie next door, and she's like "wanna come", along those lines while we were talking. We go over, I buy her a smoothie, and myself a drink and sit and talk with her for the short time being. She had to get back, but this time I didn't ask her out. I wan't to go back and just say what up, and do it but I'm just confused on what I should do. She's way fun to talk to, easy to make laugh, and I like talking to her. My friends say don't even think about asking a girl out twice, let alone thrice, so that has me thinking also. I don't know what I should do, or what I should ask her to do if I was to ask her out some time. Link to post Share on other sites
princess75 Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 Love is a funny thing. Get to know her first, one more thing love is not complicated at all in the beginning. When things have to happen, they just do. Otherwise let it go...maybe it is not the right time, or maybe it is not her. All I can say is listen to your heart, if it says to invite her out once again, then do so..but know if your heart is saying or your mind and ego. What you could also do, is go to movies more frequently, or to malls with friends and talk to her to get to know her better. Then you will know what she thinks about life in general..it is easier not to idealize people. And hey, it is also good to know someone while not dating then you are sure they are not putting on an act. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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