lovingu Posted August 11, 2004 Share Posted August 11, 2004 I like this guy from my class, but i am kinda embarassed to talk to him.So, my friends let him know that I am into him.He told my friends that he's gonna talk to me. So, yesterday, he came in late and sat near me, and looked at me. He seemed like he wanna talk to me. But, I didn't even look him back coz i was too nervous+i was taking the test. Then, he left the class early. When i got out from the class, i told his friend to call him that I was waiting for him in the library coz i wanna talk to him. Then, I gave my # to his friend. Later, he came to the library and we talked like an hour. He's so nice and friendly. I let him know that i like him(my friends think letting him know that i like him is wrong). He didn't say anything but looked at me and smiled.Then, he said he tried to talk to me these days but i was running away from him .He said if he were me and if he like someone , he would talk to that person instead of telling him that i like him.i felt so stupid. I told him that i didn't have a chance to talk to him coz he always comes in late and i get out from the class early, + i got too nervous in front of him. Then, he told me abt his work and family, and asked me abt my family and stuffs. It is a friendly conversation.Then, he told me abt his work and how many hours he works, and he told me that he has no time to have a gf coz of his work+school. So, i told him that all i want is to be his friend.Then, we exchanged our #s. I really like this guy. I am so into him .But, I think he's not interested in me. Do u think i should call him first? what should i do? I can't eat , I can't sleep, and i even cry coz i feel really sad!Do uguys think letting him know that i like him is wrong? Please help me. What should i do? I can't do anything because I think abt him all the time, and i feel bad. P.S . I am 19yrs old/Asian, and he's 23yrs old/Spanish. Link to post Share on other sites
annie333 Posted August 11, 2004 Share Posted August 11, 2004 Hi, Good for you that you got some time to chat with someone who you like! I think that's the first step toward anything! Don't be embarrassed because you are shy...if he is a nice guy and it seems like he is, then he will understand. I would be friendly when you see him but since you already made a move but letting him know you like him, I'd wait for him to call you. I know it's hard but he needs to make an effort to win YOU over! Good Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovingu Posted August 11, 2004 Author Share Posted August 11, 2004 i dun think he's interested in me ....coz he hasn't called me yet!(at least he should call me coz i told him that all i want is to be his frd) if he doesn't interested in me, why did he come to talk to me like an hour?Why did he say that he's been trying to talk to me?Why is he so nice to me? I am hurt!I can't sleep at nights, so i have to take sleeping pills. Link to post Share on other sites
Papillon Posted August 11, 2004 Share Posted August 11, 2004 Hey, take it easy, princess. The guy has probably caught on that you are shy and might be afraid of chasing you away if he comes on too strongly. Just be yourself, be cool, and everything is gonna be fine. A couple weeks from now you're gonna think back on this and giggle at your sillyness. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovingu Posted August 11, 2004 Author Share Posted August 11, 2004 at least he should call me as a friend if he considers me as a friend. I try to make myself busy to forget abt that. The more i try to forget abt him, the more i miss him I dunno if he has feelings for me or not, or does he consider me as a frd or not. what do u think? Link to post Share on other sites
Papillon Posted August 11, 2004 Share Posted August 11, 2004 It's pointless to speculate. No, really, it is. You're letting you imagination whip up negative feelings. The only way to find out is to take matters into your own hands. You're going to have to come out of your comfort zone a little, brace yourself for dissapoinment, and then ask him out to a movie or dinner or something. I'm sure he is also unsure about everything, but the only way to find out what the future will hold is to make it happen, even if it means you have to take on the "predatory" (grrrooowwl ) role. Keep us posted! Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted August 11, 2004 Share Posted August 11, 2004 If you like this guy, and are interested in him as more than just a friend, how then can you maintain a friendship with him? If you have any questions I think that you are going to have to pick the telephone up yourself and dial his number. Just remember that he did inform you he has no interest in a relationship at this point in time. As for why he spoke to you, I speak to people when I feel like it. I assume that he spoke to you as he wanted to do so. Sometimes it's just nice to talk to people, you know. I often find myself having lengthy conversations with persons I never see again in my life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovingu Posted August 11, 2004 Author Share Posted August 11, 2004 i think he should call me even if he likes me or not.now, he's like giving me hopes and running away from me. Link to post Share on other sites
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