Author brokengirl3 Posted January 14, 2013 Author Share Posted January 14, 2013 You are a romantic like me. Abbracci. I've been in relationships with cold/distant women. What I would give for a woman who smothered me. LOl! What are you--Spanish/Italian? But focus on yourself. Don't cling to hope. Life is short, and there are plenty of fish in the sea. Im im Greek and indeed a romantic person! !Thank you so much for your advice !!I know what i should do.The problem is my heart can not follow me!I should find a way to love myself more than i used to and focus on a self improvement plan!For now i still thinking of him and checking my cellphone to see if he texted me!Sometimes i feel so STUPID! Link to post Share on other sites
Stoic44 Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Im im Greek and indeed a romantic person! !Thank you so much for your advice !!I know what i should do.The problem is my heart can not follow me!I should find a way to love myself more than i used to and focus on a self improvement plan!For now i still thinking of him and checking my cellphone to see if he texted me!Sometimes i feel so STUPID! Una fazza, una razza! Big hearts too! LOL! Don't feel stupid, everybody goes through the checking of the phone and it is worse for the romantics Yes, focus on yourself and what you would like to do/become in your life. Best of luck! Stay strong! Read the Stoic philosophers too; they are the tough guys Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokengirl3 Posted January 14, 2013 Author Share Posted January 14, 2013 Sei Italiano?:)I feel stupid because i still hold a hope inside, because i still feel a stomach ache when i think of him ,because i still and i will always love him not matter what he did to me ! Link to post Share on other sites
LostOne1 Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Sei Italiano?:)I feel stupid because i still hold a hope inside, because i still feel a stomach ache when i think of him ,because i still and i will always love him not matter what he did to me ! I know that feel very well. But after awhile it will fade quite a bit. This is going to be hard for you and it was for me. But time helps it a lot. I mean if you compared me then from now there is a HUGE difference in me. But I still have a long way to go in terms of healing and you will heal too Link to post Share on other sites
Stoic44 Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Sei Italiano?:)I feel stupid because i still hold a hope inside, because i still feel a stomach ache when i think of him ,because i still and i will always love him not matter what he did to me ! My grandparents were Italian but I live in the USA. About that stomachache: There is a good song in Italian called "Il Mare Calmo Della Sera" by Bocelli. In Italian it goes: Se dentro l'anima/to fossi musica/se il sole fosse dentro te, se fossi veramente/dentro l'anima mia, allora si che udir potrei/ il mare calmo della sera." Translated: If within my soul you were music, if you were like the sun, then in my silence I could hear the calm evening sea. That is to say: If I really loved you, I would feel like the sea at night. In other words, love is not constant stomachaches Think about it. Good night, it is late here... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Good morning all!Kalimera!!Unfortunately i can not keep no hope!Deep inside i wait for him to UNDERSTAND what he MISSED!!! Hope? You know the story of Pandora...Right? All 'hope' contains, is a big fat 'zero'.. Pandora famously and unwittingly released all the furies, ills and evils of the world, when she opened the box consigned to her trust.... she slammed the lid shut to prevent further damage, but only one thing remained in the box: HOPE. However, if you read and mark the story well, it relates how the box contained ALL the furies, evils and ills of the world - not ALL the furies, evils and ills of the world except one.... so 'Hope’ is just as much a negative as the rest of them. This is why the word 'hope' is so often preceded by the word 'false'..... Hope does nothing but leave a Hole in your heart, and make it bleed longer. Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokengirl3 Posted January 14, 2013 Author Share Posted January 14, 2013 I need something to hold on to!!!Im giving up, im not strong enough to through this!i dont understand also WHY he cant see how much i love him and appriciated my heart,my soul !WHY he doesnt missed me !!!Is it because he is selfish or because he does not love me!HONESTLY i love him more THAN anything !!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 Oh, parakalo, stop now!! Talking like this just weakens you. Quit depending on something outside of yourself to make you happy! YOU - have to make YOU happy! Don't rely on him, he's not worth the effort!! Please, stop this silliness!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokengirl3 Posted January 14, 2013 Author Share Posted January 14, 2013 Efharisto para poli dear Tara ! You are so nice and kind !I want your opinion do you think my case is an example ofThe Grass Is Greener" Syndrome ? Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 No. I think he's just a selfish jerk who wants to put it about a bit. If he's Greek also, he's probably like an Italian. A bit chauvinistic, believes he has a right to sow his oats, but also keep his women in line - or lined up for his choice. I am half-Italian. I have so many cousins and second-cousins in Italia now, I have lost count. But the males are typically Italian.... many good looking and at least 4 that I know of, have a couple of mistresses - even though their wives are very pretty. But they also had kids, so sex with a wife is a family thing, it's expected, of course, and a man can do that with pleasure.... but having mistresses is just fun, and a diversion from domesticity. besides, a full-blooded Italian (or Greek!) is a stud - no? This is a bit stereotypical - but some of my cousins are stereotypes! Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokengirl3 Posted January 14, 2013 Author Share Posted January 14, 2013 I dont think so!My ex he is selfish but he never cheated his ex girlfriends never!Thats why i did not expected something like this!I think he is confused!I gave him so much love and attention and no room to breath !This is my opinion!Only my ex knows the truth! Link to post Share on other sites
Stoic44 Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 You're cute..Can you come to the USA and smother.me? Please? Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokengirl3 Posted January 15, 2013 Author Share Posted January 15, 2013 You're cute..Can you come to the USA and smother.me? Please? Am I ?I will need free tickets ,accommodation, food, drinks and a pillow! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Stoic44 Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 LOL! Deal. I will stop pining for my ex and you can stop pining for yours! You can't hurt me though bc extradition might be hard! :rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokengirl3 Posted January 15, 2013 Author Share Posted January 15, 2013 hahah no no no i will never hurt you because they will send me back by international courrier service ! ps:if your age is 44 will be a problem Link to post Share on other sites
Stoic44 Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 Oh I'm younger than 44. We're within an acceptable age range, meli mou Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokengirl3 Posted January 15, 2013 Author Share Posted January 15, 2013 43?LOL !Meli in greek means honey!We eat it:p !If you want to say to someone honey you saying glikia mou (sweety) not honey! Link to post Share on other sites
Stoic44 Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 You will have to teach me more Greek when you get here, glikia mou Younger than 43! How old are you? I will upload a picture. ... Link to post Share on other sites
PogoStick Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 Leave her alone, she's mine. Hey 2 Greek Cypriot men lived with me for 2 years. Crazy times and liked to party, Nicholas and Andreas, and their friend Evangelis. I never met the greek women (except their mother!). They always told me I need to meet one! They only taught me words like lesvias. Link to post Share on other sites
Stoic44 Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 43?LOL !Meli in greek means honey!We eat it:p !If you want to say to someone honey you saying glikia mou (sweety) not honey! Okay there you go. You can go out with the other guy if you want, but (a) I asked first and (b) he's just a stick figure Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokengirl3 Posted January 15, 2013 Author Share Posted January 15, 2013 LOL LOL LOL!At least we laugh! BF No1(STOIC): Im 30 !!! BF No2(POGO):What you can offer me? It seems you know very polite words in greek:P Link to post Share on other sites
Stoic44 Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 Okay, I am 10 years older. That's acceptable though Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokengirl3 Posted January 15, 2013 Author Share Posted January 15, 2013 My ex is 28!!But if you have a job and your own house is fine Link to post Share on other sites
Stoic44 Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 28? Just a boy. Doesn't know what he wants. No wonder there's all this turmoil! And yes on your questions Link to post Share on other sites
Author brokengirl3 Posted January 15, 2013 Author Share Posted January 15, 2013 I dont know Stoic if he is unmature, maybe he is! I gave him everything and he left me!I will never do this again! I will always keep something for myself! Link to post Share on other sites
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