Ldr

[Wonder310]

I've been talking to this girl for over a year. I ended up falling for her too quickly. She knows I love her & she says she has feelings for me, but she isn't over her ex. I used to live in Houston (that's where she lives) but I ended up moving to Las Vegas. I'm supposed to go back to Houston in 2 weeks. What am I supposed to do? Her bestfriend told me that I should just be her friend & give her time & space, but I'm afraid that I'll end up losing her :/ any advice? By the way she said I got clingy ever since I fell for her. Idk what to do about that either. Do I talk to her as a friend or do I talk to her the same way?

[Carenth]

If she doesn't reciprocate your feelings and you can't handle just been friends with her then it's probably just best too let it go and move on with your life. No point waiting around for someone who may never return the feelings you have for her.

[justwhoiam]

I've been talking to this girl for over a year.

Only talking? Never met her?

 

I ended up falling for her too quickly. She knows I love her & she says she has feelings for me, but she isn't over her ex. I used to live in Houston (that's where she lives) but I ended up moving to Las Vegas. I'm supposed to go back to Houston in 2 weeks. What am I supposed to do?

Ask her out.

 

Her bestfriend told me that I should just be her friend & give her time & space, but I'm afraid that I'll end up losing her :/ any advice?

1. Don't listen to her best friend.

2. Don't talk to her best friend.

3. Never let her best friend know what you're up to.

4. Don't rely on her best friend.

5. If you want the girl as your girlfriend, don't try to put yourself in the friends zone. As you said, the risk is she will just end up seeing you as a friend. And you will only blame it on yourself then.

 

By the way she said I got clingy ever since I fell for her. Idk what to do about that either. Do I talk to her as a friend or do I talk to her the same way?

Don't call her/contact her too much. How much is too much? I don't know, maybe you should tell us how many times you get in touch with her and what kind of things you tell her. Keep it cool, you probably scared her out. Don't rush things. Just ask her out to have some fun. Like bowling, fireworks, xmas markets, anything she might like. Have ideas on where to take her and tell her if she would like to go there with you. If it's not a too girly thing, tell her you'd like to go there and you'd like if she joined you... Give her the time to get to know you for who you really are. Don't be clingy. Don't say I love you, I miss you or any other mushy thing. Let her have a good time with you so that she can have good memories WITH YOU. At that point, if you get along well, things will turn out good for you. Come back for some more advice.