Cheating boyfriend

[LossLove138]

So I just found out my fiance of of 7 years has been having a affair for the passed 6. All with the same person. We are getting married next year. He once said cheating is kinda okay while dating but once you get married its totally wrong. Can I believe him? I don't know what to do. He doesn't know I know yet. I found out earlier this year and I asked he said he wasn't. I kinda believe he was then I just found proof. He even told her he loved her :/ I'm so lossed. I love him and I don't want to loss him. But I can't believe what he has done.

[stillafool]

You found out earlier this year he was cheating and haven't confronted him yet????? Why not? Why has he been your fiance for 7 years and you haven't gotten married yet? 7 years is too long to be engaged IMHO. If he has cheated on you with this other girl for 6 years he really isn't your bf but hers as well. Dump this loser and get a real bf. He will not change and he certainly isn't going to stop seeing the other girl after seeing her for 6 years.

[GSB81]

That whole "its okay to cheat while dating" thing should have been enough to send him packing, but it wasn't and now look at the situation you're in. Marry him and you're in for more of it. You think he's gonna break things off with a woman he loves just because he's married? So sorry for your pain., good luck.

[dasein]

Welcome to LS. No, it isn't standard to cheat on your relationships before marriage. Do not marry this man no matter what, he will rationalize doing exactly as he wants even after marriage with new and more creative BS. Save your life lots of future misery now by leaving this ass, you can do better than this guy. Thank goodness you aren't already married with children. Good luck.