skang Posted December 8, 2012 Share Posted December 8, 2012 Last night my long distance girlfriend called me after she was supposed to get off from work at 10 PM, saying she was going to work for an additional two hours but would call me after. At 11 PM I got another call from her but she didn't know she was on the other end. As I was about to hang up I hear a male's voice and laughing in the background. Immediately I called and texted but no response. I tried calling again at 12:30 AM but went straight to voicemail. I assumed her phone died and since we often Skype together I logged on waiting for her. 15 minutes later I saw her log into Skype and simultaneously I got a phone call from her. We talked for a minute. She was explaining how her phone died and that her charger has been acting up. I asked her about the phone call she made earlier and she quickly hung up saying how she would call me back because her phone was going to die. I checked to see if she was still on Skype but, she was logged off too. I tried calling multiple times throughout the night but went straight to voicemail. She never logged back onto Skype afterwards as well. She called and texted me this earlier today: I want to believe all of this but I'm having a hard time. She has a new iPhone 5 and never mentioned an issue with her charger before last night. What do you guys make from all this? I would like an outside perspective. Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted December 9, 2012 Share Posted December 9, 2012 The BS gut is never wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
Darren Steez Posted December 9, 2012 Share Posted December 9, 2012 Look excuses are excuses, it's easier to explain away situations once you had a full night to think up an excuse, so her charger is acting up at night but not in the morning? You are getting played if it's long distance and you're already mistrusting or she's acting shady then it's not going to be good for anyone involved. Don't fall for her bull, trust your gut and dump her then move on, find someone closer to home. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted December 10, 2012 Share Posted December 10, 2012 Always go with your gut. Funny how when you finally got a hold of her and you inquired about her butt dialing you; THEN, her phone was about to die and had to leave. AND log off of skype.... She was backed into a corner and looking for a way out. She doesn't know what you heard with her butt dial and couldn't come up with a viable excuse on the fly. THEN, you get a text explaining EVERYTHING the next day. The story about the phone, about running to the "school friends" house WITH other friends to drop off a charger "he accidentially" left at school. (First, I've never heard or seen a student ever bring in a phone charger onto campus to charge a phone while in class) So, that explains away the possibly that you heard a man's voice with her butt dial. Did you ever inquire about a guys voice that you heard? Funny how she would explain that out of the blue! I'm not entirely sure if it's red flags, but something is very fishy. Link to post Share on other sites
Bumaga vsyo sterpit Posted December 25, 2012 Share Posted December 25, 2012 Last night my long distance girlfriend called me after she was supposed to get off from work at 10 PM, saying she was going to work for an additional two hours but would call me after. At 11 PM I got another call from her but she didn't know she was on the other end. As I was about to hang up I hear a male's voice and laughing in the background. Immediately I called and texted but no response. I tried calling again at 12:30 AM but went straight to voicemail. I assumed her phone died and since we often Skype together I logged on waiting for her. 15 minutes later I saw her log into Skype and simultaneously I got a phone call from her. We talked for a minute. She was explaining how her phone died and that her charger has been acting up. I asked her about the phone call she made earlier and she quickly hung up saying how she would call me back because her phone was going to die. I checked to see if she was still on Skype but, she was logged off too. I tried calling multiple times throughout the night but went straight to voicemail. She never logged back onto Skype afterwards as well. She called and texted me this earlier today: I want to believe all of this but I'm having a hard time. She has a new iPhone 5 and never mentioned an issue with her charger before last night. What do you guys make from all this? I would like an outside perspective. Thank you. I really miss my iPhone. Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted December 25, 2012 Share Posted December 25, 2012 Im gonna go ahead and say that because these are excuses are so long and detailed that yeah, she is in fact lying. Link to post Share on other sites
Christopher82 Posted December 25, 2012 Share Posted December 25, 2012 (edited) She's going into wayyyyyyy too much detail regarding such a simple thing. How some who is honest talks: "Babe, I'm so sorry. My phone died last night. I really wanted to talk to you :(" How a liar talks: "OMG, it was such a mission, my phone blah blah blah. I went someone where and saw so and so. Killed two birds with one stone. etc etc. blah blah. I'm gonna take a nap for 20 and try calling you again. I miss you so much. etc etc" I'm not even in the relationship and my gut is saying that she's covering something up. The B.S detectors are flashing red. Dude, believe me..... TRUST YOU GUT. I was told this time and time again when I thought something was up with my recent gf (now ex).... sure sh*t, she was cheating on me and was quite shameless w/ how she went about it. Trust your gut Edited December 25, 2012 by Christopher82 1 Link to post Share on other sites
silvermercy Posted December 26, 2012 Share Posted December 26, 2012 (edited) I agree with the others: WAAAAAY too many details on what happened. WAAAAAY too much analysis on a supposedly innocent situation. WAAAAYYYYY too much time passed since she came up with her... "excuse thesis". Because that's a long-ass essay you got in your hands there! An honest person will not go to such strange lengths to explain something. Especially something simple like a missed call or dead phone. Now couple the above with her extremely odd reaction the night before: Not Good! Do you know who engage is such behaviour? LIARS. Liars who almost got caught (see: odd phone call). Guaranteed! Also, to me the "I miss you so much" sounds... just... fake. Only added for effect. Trust your gut instinct! It's never wrong. Edited December 26, 2012 by silvermercy Link to post Share on other sites
Later82012 Posted December 26, 2012 Share Posted December 26, 2012 Why don't you find someone that lives closer to you? Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted December 27, 2012 Share Posted December 27, 2012 Why don't you find someone that lives closer to you? Literally made me lol. If only it were so easy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author skang Posted December 27, 2012 Author Share Posted December 27, 2012 She's going into wayyyyyyy too much detail regarding such a simple thing. How some who is honest talks: "Babe, I'm so sorry. My phone died last night. I really wanted to talk to you :(" How a liar talks: "OMG, it was such a mission, my phone blah blah blah. I went someone where and saw so and so. Killed two birds with one stone. etc etc. blah blah. I'm gonna take a nap for 20 and try calling you again. I miss you so much. etc etc" I'm not even in the relationship and my gut is saying that she's covering something up. The B.S detectors are flashing red. Dude, believe me..... TRUST YOU GUT. I was told this time and time again when I thought something was up with my recent gf (now ex).... sure sh*t, she was cheating on me and was quite shameless w/ how she went about it. Trust your gut I agree with the others: WAAAAAY too many details on what happened. WAAAAAY too much analysis on a supposedly innocent situation. WAAAAYYYYY too much time passed since she came up with her... "excuse thesis". Because that's a long-ass essay you got in your hands there! An honest person will not go to such strange lengths to explain something. Especially something simple like a missed call or dead phone. Now couple the above with her extremely odd reaction the night before: Not Good! Do you know who engage is such behaviour? LIARS. Liars who almost got caught (see: odd phone call). Guaranteed! Also, to me the "I miss you so much" sounds... just... fake. Only added for effect. Trust your gut instinct! It's never wrong. Great points. It's easy to be blindsided by emotion and sometimes you just need to look at the facts. Link to post Share on other sites
TheLestat Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 Like they said, it seems fishy. if you heard a guy in the background its a red flag. Ask her who the guy was what he was doing there, what department he works in ect... and if you can talk to him and confirm her story. Thats one way to find out. If she stutters, looks away ect... shes lieing and dump her Heres a bunny to make you feel better :bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
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