Divorcedmomto3 Posted December 10, 2012 Share Posted December 10, 2012 OK, so I am new here, please be gentle with me I have been divorced for nearly 3 years, it was a traumatic divorce, my husband was basically living a double life. Now I am out in the dating world, learning to trust again. I have dated some in the past couple of years (nothing long term, I think I wasn't quite ready), however, I met a guy for coffee recently. He is a pretty amazing guy. He is a beautiful person inside and out. I had a great time, I thought he did too, we stayed and talked for over 2 hours. When we were sitting at the table before leaving, he said, "Maybe we can get together for coffee again?" I said, "Yeah, sure." Then after we walked outside to our cars and hugged goodbye he said, "So would you want to get together before Christmas? We could talk on the phone and email too before then." He mentioned having custody of his kids this week and it being more busy this coming week because of it. Again I said, "Sure" and that I couldn't think of any big plans I had coming up. So tomorrow morning it will be 2 days and he hasn't called or texted. I don't know if I came across as not that interested? I tend to not overly exert my emotions. Is it appropriate for me to text him and just say, "hey, how was the rest of your weekend?? I hope you are having a good day!" or something? This is the first guy...yes the FIRST guy since I've been divorced that I have really really hoped would call me back. The other guys I dated did, but I just wasn't as interested...the chemistry didn't seem to be there. If this guy wasn't interested in me, do you think he would ask twice if I wanted to meet him again? I've read that some guys will mention meeting again just to be polite. Thanks for your help! Link to post Share on other sites
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