aBcDeFgH Posted December 11, 2012 Share Posted December 11, 2012 I'm a 20 year old final year college student. I have a crush on a first year girl who isn't attractive in the conventional ways like she isn't slim and all, but I find her really pretty and stylish. But I'm not a "stylish" kind of a person and not very attractive (maybe), though I am tall, not fat, and some people have said that I am handsome too. But I have never had a girlfriend (the only girl I ever proposed, rejected me; in high school). So I don't have any experience, neither do I have the courage to be rejected, since I see a life partner in her. I really need customized advice just for me. Please tell me what to do, as in how to change myself in order to get her (please don't say I should want to be with a girl who likes me as I am because I think that will never happen since I am not attractive in the traditional or expected ways...) and how to gather courage and finally ask her out (I am ready to send all I can on her)... Your advises and suggestions will be extremely respected and thanked.. Link to post Share on other sites
Cutiepie1976 Posted December 11, 2012 Share Posted December 11, 2012 You need to work on your self-esteem first and foremost. Are long as you think no one could possibly like you as-is, you will have minimal, if any, success! Hygiene is also important. Not saying this is you, but this can be a pitfall for more than a few young men. A regular shower/bath, washed hair, shaved face (or at least neatly groomed, trim facial hair), trimmed, clean fingernails and toenails, decent smelling feet, brushed teeth, etc. need to be a priority. Again, none of this may be applicable to you. You tell us almost nothing about yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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