carhill Posted January 2, 2013 Share Posted January 2, 2013 Pretty innocent and innocuous ego boost, tenting a young man's pants. My personal favorite was the sly smile whilst a few pubic hairs strayed from the bikini. Ah, to be young again enjoying the bounty of older women, cleaning their pools and mowing their lawns and pulling their weeds. How sweet it was. Beautiful agony There's little doubt your wife knew exactly what she was doing. I've rarely met a woman who didn't, past the age of puberty anyway, and some even before. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
movingon12 Posted January 2, 2013 Share Posted January 2, 2013 He was 13? She probably didn't even think about it. He's still a kid. If he was 15 it would be a different story. I don't think I would assume a 13 year old would be checking me out. Though I've never been a 13 yo boy... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Clockwork Posted January 2, 2013 Author Share Posted January 2, 2013 I don't know if this is serious or not, but I find it odd that she was helping a kid do the work that you hired him to do. The fact that she wanted to make his day while doing it actually makes sense. But I'm a little sicker than most... He was doing a good job but she was helping him just to be nice, I guess. It wasn't a big job or anything so it wasn't like I was paying him anything more than like $10. The funny thing is he just sort of stopped working once she started to bend over and help him. Link to post Share on other sites
KraftDinner Posted January 2, 2013 Share Posted January 2, 2013 I'm aware that some of my shirts do this and frankly I don't think about it. There's nothing embarrassing about boobs and there's nothing wrong with someone looking at them. I'm sorry, but 13 year old boys get turned on looking at store mannequins, and as this website constantly reinforces, all men seem to check out women constantly. I'm not going to wear a burqa in case someone gets aroused looking at me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
NervisPervis Posted January 2, 2013 Share Posted January 2, 2013 I'm not going to wear a burqa in case someone gets aroused looking at me. How you feel you need to dress when dealing with the general public is not exactly the point. Watching your wife deliberatly flaunting the goods to see if she can give a 13 year old boy a stiffy is a different story. Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted January 2, 2013 Share Posted January 2, 2013 I don't know if this is serious or not, but I find it odd that she was helping a kid do the work that you hired him to do. The fact that she wanted to make his day while doing it actually makes sense. But I'm a little sicker than most... Dead serious. A woman with 38's in a tank top bending over in front of someone, she knows what she is doing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted January 2, 2013 Share Posted January 2, 2013 Who really cares? Women like your wife rule! A little teasing is harmless. Tell that to Mary Kay Letourneau Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 2, 2013 Share Posted January 2, 2013 Mary wasn't equipped to properly tent in that way Link to post Share on other sites
NervisPervis Posted January 3, 2013 Share Posted January 3, 2013 Tell that to Mary Kay Letourneau "As a teacher, Letourneau took sixth-grade student Vili Fualaau under her wing, and encouraged his artistic talents. He spent time at her house, and she encouraged a friendship between him and her oldest child, Steve, who was only a year younger than him. In June 1996, however, she began a sexual relationship with the 13-year-old, a relationship that Fualaau would later say he welcomed." I am sure he DID! Link to post Share on other sites
ChessPieceFace Posted January 3, 2013 Share Posted January 3, 2013 The question I have is that how do women not know this? They buy the shirts right? I mean, with guys our eyes gravitate towards boobs at any time. Yeah, I'm not buying that she didn't know. And note that if the genders or ages were reversed someone would probably be in prison or in court for lewd exposure or something. Sad. Link to post Share on other sites
PinkSapphire Posted January 3, 2013 Share Posted January 3, 2013 Well, apparently some women are aware of this stuff, if this thread is to be believed. But, I am one of those women totally oblivious to this stuff. My friends are always telling me that guys check me out when I am walking down the street, and I have NO IDEA! I usually walk or go for runs alone, so I just get lost in y thoughts or the beautiful scenery or whatever is going on and never think about it until it is brought up. My last bf even admitted after we broke up, that he would sometimes purposely walk behind me to watch other guys check me out (cuz I guess they didn't as much when he as beside me? even though they openly hit on me when we were even holding hands several times!) basically, I am completely oblivious. On those occasions where a neckline droops during the day (yes, this happens and is so EMBARRASSING!), I will notice that my bra is hanging out and constantly adjust it hoping no one noticed. Judging from replies on here, guys definitely do, but that is too painfully embarrassing to admit when you are stuck with no change of clothes. Bottom line, she is probably completely unaware, especially if she was bigger in her teens and is not used to the idea that men might check her out. When guys are younger they are more obvious, so those of us who were less attractive or the nerdy girls just got used to the idea that we were invisible. Guys checking us out? Never crosses our minds. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted January 3, 2013 Share Posted January 3, 2013 Again, believe her if she says she doesn't realize it. I can tell that many women don't realize it when their cleavage is showing. And I can tell when a woman does know based on the look in her eye as she looks at me...knowing I won't be able to resist. My wife IS oblivious to her cleavage. Her mind does not work that way. She is bigger boobed and gets irritated that guys feel that need to check her cleavage. When she notices it, she covers it. And a 13 year old? Nope...she would not realize that the kid was thinking that way. Forget about it and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted January 3, 2013 Share Posted January 3, 2013 You're insane. Tell that to Mary Kay Letourneau Link to post Share on other sites
Author Clockwork Posted January 4, 2013 Author Share Posted January 4, 2013 Bottom line, she is probably completely unaware, especially if she was bigger in her teens and is not used to the idea that men might check her out. When guys are younger they are more obvious, so those of us who were less attractive or the nerdy girls just got used to the idea that we were invisible. Guys checking us out? Never crosses our minds. That's possible. My wife could easily fall into the "ugly duckling" syndrome. But she's been in shape and a very attractive woman (in her eyes even) for a while. Who knows. Is it possible that there is a subconcious feeling inside of her that likes being leered at just because she didn't get that a lot as a teenager? Can it be possible that she was compensating by getting the satisfaction of now being able to attract teenage boys to sort of prove a point to herself, and to do it for her "former fat girl" self? She never comes across as the type who ever needs to compensate for something but maybe old habits die hard and even the strongest girl might get a little satisfaction knowing that she is considered "hot" by someone in an age group that rejected her way back when. Link to post Share on other sites
PinkSapphire Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 Clockwork, I am sorry but that sounds so messed up. Is that how your mind works? You might need help... No way she knew. It has been 9 years for me since men have started giving me tons of attention - like all of a sudden they found me beautiful/whatever-adjective for some reason. It started at my first summer job, working with almost all men. I was suddenly the one being hit on and chatted up; it was very weird. If she was the "ugly duckling" in high school, she has learned to develop other parts of herself and gain self-esteem from her personality or passions rather than her looks and attention from men. In fact, she has probably taught herself to disdain it since she never got it when she likely would have wanted it. It would be stooping below her now to admit she still wants that attention she could never get. That doesn't change; it is how she developed. Getting attention from men is always a nice surprise, unless he is being gross about it - then it's nasty, but I highly doubt she is suddenly stooping beneath her dignity just for some attention that she learned to live without anyway. Obviously I don't know her, so I could be wrong; however, when one demographic rejects or ridicules you for shallow reasons, it is never satisfying to flaunt your new hotness to that same demographic just to get what they never gave you before. It feels somehow demeaning, as though you still care for it after telling yourself for years that you didn't care. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Clockwork Posted January 4, 2013 Author Share Posted January 4, 2013 Clockwork, I am sorry but that sounds so messed up. Is that how your mind works? You might need help... No way she knew. It has been 9 years for me since men have started giving me tons of attention - like all of a sudden they found me beautiful/whatever-adjective for some reason. It started at my first summer job, working with almost all men. I was suddenly the one being hit on and chatted up; it was very weird. If she was the "ugly duckling" in high school, she has learned to develop other parts of herself and gain self-esteem from her personality or passions rather than her looks and attention from men. In fact, she has probably taught herself to disdain it since she never got it when she likely would have wanted it. It would be stooping below her now to admit she still wants that attention she could never get. That doesn't change; it is how she developed. Getting attention from men is always a nice surprise, unless he is being gross about it - then it's nasty, but I highly doubt she is suddenly stooping beneath her dignity just for some attention that she learned to live without anyway. Obviously I don't know her, so I could be wrong; however, when one demographic rejects or ridicules you for shallow reasons, it is never satisfying to flaunt your new hotness to that same demographic just to get what they never gave you before. It feels somehow demeaning, as though you still care for it after telling yourself for years that you didn't care. Hmmm. Fair analysis. And yes, I am a man, I have no idea how the female brain works anymore than the rest of us do. But yes, you're description does reflect my wife a lot more. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PinkSapphire Posted January 4, 2013 Share Posted January 4, 2013 Ok, so I would say don't worry about it. She probably doesn't even remember the incident (you said it was years ago?), and if I had to bet money would say she was quite oblivious to "showing off" for a little boy (which is what a 13-year old is to a woman 18 and up). Cheers! Link to post Share on other sites
Babolat Posted January 9, 2013 Share Posted January 9, 2013 My gf is a 34DD and they are beautiful, almost perfect. She wears tight t-shirts at times, she wears revealing tops at times, and will even wear a "club" dress to go out with her friends that shows a lot of cleavage. To be honest, there is not too much she wears that does not show her shape as she likes to wear clothes that fit. And, she does not liek to wear a bra. She tells me men are men and will look if they want to, she cannot control that. I get that, though it still bothers me. I try to look at it this way, she is HOT, she is with me and goes home with me. Link to post Share on other sites
mavendark Posted January 10, 2013 Share Posted January 10, 2013 Well, apparently some women are aware of this stuff, if this thread is to be believed. But, I am one of those women totally oblivious to this stuff. My friends are always telling me that guys check me out when I am walking down the street, and I have NO IDEA! I usually walk or go for runs alone, so I just get lost in y thoughts or the beautiful scenery or whatever is going on and never think about it until it is brought up. My last bf even admitted after we broke up, that he would sometimes purposely walk behind me to watch other guys check me out (cuz I guess they didn't as much when he as beside me? even though they openly hit on me when we were even holding hands several times!) basically, I am completely oblivious. On those occasions where a neckline droops during the day (yes, this happens and is so EMBARRASSING!), I will notice that my bra is hanging out and constantly adjust it hoping no one noticed. Judging from replies on here, guys definitely do, but that is too painfully embarrassing to admit when you are stuck with no change of clothes. Bottom line, she is probably completely unaware, especially if she was bigger in her teens and is not used to the idea that men might check her out. When guys are younger they are more obvious, so those of us who were less attractive or the nerdy girls just got used to the idea that we were invisible. Guys checking us out? Never crosses our minds. I'm on the same boat as you. You basically said exactly what I would say word for word. I get conscious only when I'm actively putting clothes on and seeing myself in the mirror. I would think "Oh my goodness, this shows quite a bit, I would have to be careful in public" but most of the time, I don't really use a mirror when I toss on my clothes (it doesn't help that I don't have a full length mirror to use either). So yes, I am most likely oblivious 90% of the time. Also, after I put something on, I don't really think about it for the rest of the day. Clothing is clothing to me, even though I do dress up relatively well everyday, in the end they are all the "same" to me, hence why I would be oblivious. Your wife was probably just thinking she had "clothing on" but she probably didn't realize it was super showy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
NervisPervis Posted January 10, 2013 Share Posted January 10, 2013 ...and will even wear a "club" dress to go out with her friends that shows a lot of cleavage. And, she does not like to wear a bra. She tells me men are men and will look if they want to, she cannot control that. I get that, though it still bothers me. Sorry to hijack, but this is an old thread, and the OP is gone anyhow. So you're OK with these hen parties at the clubs with her dressed like that? Does she tell you all about these nights when she gets home? Who bought her drinks? Who she partied with? Just curious. Thanks for your time, NP Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted January 10, 2013 Share Posted January 10, 2013 She tells me men are men and will look if they want to So basically she is just giving them something to look at. She likes it. She craves it, and is giving you a stupid excuse. Link to post Share on other sites
NervisPervis Posted January 10, 2013 Share Posted January 10, 2013 Sorry B. I had no idea. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/366517-trying-trying-rust-my-girlfriend-partying-blackouts She may be a wonderful gal 90% of the time. But that last 10%. WOW! Nobody needs that. Find someone who shares your values. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Clockwork Posted January 13, 2013 Author Share Posted January 13, 2013 So basically she is just giving them something to look at. She likes it. She craves it, and is giving you a stupid excuse. I guess even a happy girl in a relationship can use an ego boost once in a while right? Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted January 14, 2013 Share Posted January 14, 2013 (edited) I guess even a happy girl in a relationship can use an ego boost once in a while right? They can use one, difference is those who go out of their way to get it and those that do not. If you need validation from other men/women, then why be in a relationship/marriage? There is also a difference between someone who simply looks nice and gets compliments, and those that go fishing for it all the time, an attention wh0re Edited January 14, 2013 by nofool4u Link to post Share on other sites
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