waterwoman Posted December 13, 2012 Share Posted December 13, 2012 Hoo-bloody-ray! He's got it, by George he's got it H has always been a bit rubbish at romantic gestures. Just didn't really get it. I have made it very clear that since d-day I need more of these gestures, I need reassurance. He was struggling a bit bless him. And usually I am the do-er, the One Who Makes Things Happen.Even down to organising my own 40th birthday party.... So today I sent a text: "We need to spend some more time alone. That saturday we had a whole afternoon alone was such a brilliant day!" reply: "Yes it was but we can't afford to send all 3 kids to the States so we can get some time alone. Ha ha! " Me: "No. OK. Don't worry then..." (a bit PA I confess) Radio silence for a while then: "We could get my mum over for the night and stay in a hotel" Me: "Good idea!" Radio silence while he processed this information... "Shall I go ahead and organise that then?" Yes! Yes.....ha ha! Success. It's not that difficult really when you actually think about, it is it H? 5 Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedH Posted December 14, 2012 Share Posted December 14, 2012 I'm just glad to hear your happy tone. The good days are great, aren't they? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 14, 2012 Share Posted December 14, 2012 And usually I am the do-er, the One Who Makes Things Happen.Even down to organising my own 40th birthday party.... I read that as orgasming! Which is what you'll be doing in that hotel room this weekend... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
GLDheart Posted December 14, 2012 Share Posted December 14, 2012 "...That saturday we had a whole afternoon alone was such a brilliant day!" Positive re-inforcement!! Keep telling him when he's doing it right!! Us dumb guys are like training a stupid puppy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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