The1andonlyctm Posted December 16, 2012 Share Posted December 16, 2012 Hello this is my first post, let me start by saying I love my wife more then anything. Our marriage is in pretty rough shape right now we've only been married for 2 year but together for 8. We have 3 children 1 together and 1 each from our previous marriages. Since the day I met my wife I've been scared of losing her. Ive told her this. Now that time may be close. She was always here for us but we were always doing other things she started going to the gym about 2 yrs ago it was a problem for me, it shouldn't have been I know I would always accuse her or cheating, and She would always deny it I Believe she hasn't buy the constant bugging has pushed her away, she has become very unhappy so much to that we are not intimate anymore she has many walls up I've failed her and am scared I can't get her to love me the way she did when we met. I need to show her why she fell in love with me in the first place, she is worried wether or not her intimicy issues will ever come back. She says she doesn't want to feel like this but she just does. We are seeing a counsellor I guess what I'm asking is how do I not feel jelious? I do trust her but the second she's not around my mind wonders. Link to post Share on other sites
LoverOfDance Posted December 17, 2012 Share Posted December 17, 2012 You don't trust her. If ur mind is wondering just cause she's not with you, you don't trust her. Learn to trust your wife and your marriage should be fine. Link to post Share on other sites
Author The1andonlyctm Posted December 17, 2012 Author Share Posted December 17, 2012 What if its too late? What if her intimicy feelings never return? I know I need to trust her. But how to I win her back (we r still together but barely) I need to make her fall in love again. Link to post Share on other sites
Almond_Joy Posted December 17, 2012 Share Posted December 17, 2012 What if its too late? What if her intimicy feelings never return? I know I need to trust her. But how to I win her back (we r still together but barely) I need to make her fall in love again. Your wife's the only one that can answer that. You need to talk to your wife, let her know you want to make her happy. Since she's still with you, I imagine she's willing to do the same. Link to post Share on other sites
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