This is unacceptable!

[justwhoiam]

Some people just have alot of friends and are happy to be physically close to them in a platonic way.

Ok. That is probably acceptable in your relationship, not just any relationship. Platonic - I guess that means everything but getting physical. Emotions can be powerful. I just know that by experience.

 

my partner and I have been/are long distance, and he is moving here from the other side of the world soon. Yay!

He has lot's of female friends and sometimes posts pics on FB.. I have lot's of male friends and i do the same.. and people do alot more picture posting when traveling of course. You meet people all the time and have fun adventures with them, so you want to share them.

You can disregard a boyfriend posting pictures of him and another woman alone all the time, disregard the fact that they apparently are somebody else's girlfriends but their boyfriends are never in any pictures, you can disregard that the relationship was not made public, which means it's a hidden thing, you can disregard any of this, but then focus on what he told her and how rude he was.

 

The problem with the photos is yours

It surely is her problem, not his for sure. How can you explain meeting up friends all the time in a group and only have pictures with girls alone? Very weird, if you ask me. That doesn't sound platonic at all.

 

His response to you is utterly disrespectful and unacceptable, and goes to show that he does not care about you and your feelings and needs.

That's all the OP needs to know.

 

Question is Is he not inspiring trust JUST by FB photos or anything else which is making her feel insecure..

If its just photos, then I think its just as million pointed out.

Right. Is it just photos? Apparently not.

 

this guy implied that he doesn't mind breaking up with her just to keep hanging out with some women during his travels

This is the very bottom line.

 

Also, if he was sleeping with any of them he'd be damn stupid to post pictures of him with them on FB for you to see.

Ok, so how stupid is a girlfriend kept in the dark by her boyfriend and seeing pictures of him and women alone spending nights together?

[naviis]

Ok, so how stupid is a girlfriend kept in the dark by her boyfriend and seeing pictures of him and women alone spending nights together?

 

Not excluding the fact that he may be that stupid. But I think there's a leap between "posting pictures of him and other girls on FB" and "that cheating SOB"

[allenpo123]

Unacceptable!!!! I don't want my guy out there hugging girls, hanging out with girls and even posting them online! I couldn't stand it even if I trusted that they were just friends. I mean, yeah if you trust him 100%, it's fine to hang out with girls, but the photos are unacceptable. And him telling you "it's just the way I am" isn't either.

 

If he really cares, he should have at least TRY to feel what you are feeling. Even if he still can't change the fact that he hangs out with girls, at least he should be able to take your feelings seriously. You are his girlfriend.