sotoman Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 i read some of the threads in this forum, and im surprised to read that some women can sense when their ex has moved on! how does this work? do any of you ladies have any first hand experience of this? Link to post Share on other sites
NavyAirTraffic Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 If you're waiting for her to sense you've moved on, you haven't moved on. Or If you've moved on and she does sense it, you've moved on and don't care. That is the catch 22 3 Link to post Share on other sites
na49 Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 I believe they can, when I'm not expecting a message from my ex, I get a message from my ex. When I'm anticipating, thinking about if she'll message me. I never get anything. So yes. I think they can because they are weird. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sotoman Posted December 22, 2012 Author Share Posted December 22, 2012 odd. in another thread, someone said their ex called as soon as the met someone they were interested in. Link to post Share on other sites
thembones Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 In the past its typically worked that way. At that point when you're really moved on, you won't (and shouldn't) care. Like the other guy said, its a catch 22. Link to post Share on other sites
LostOne1 Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 I hear sometimes an ex comes bak, but by then we have moved on. That's gotta be sad. A person is in so much pain wishing their ex would reach out to them. FInally they get over it and heal and THEN the ex reaches out... sucks.. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 Fact is, a lot of our Ex's keep tabs on us. Not all, but a lot. Even when you don't think they are. Especially if they dumped you. They want to make sure you're able to move on. But, some develop a feeling of "I don't want him, but I don't want anyone else having him or her either." They make contact, fill you up with false hope and screw your world up again. Link to post Share on other sites
LostOne1 Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 Fact is, a lot of our Ex's keep tabs on us. Not all, but a lot. Even when you don't think they are. Especially if they dumped you. They want to make sure you're able to move on. But, some develop a feeling of "I don't want him, but I don't want anyone else having him or her either." They make contact, fill you up with false hope and screw your world up again. well there is NO way my ex is keeping a tab on me. She has me blocked on FB, and we have no mutual friends. In fact we have NO way to contact each other through people at all. Last time I saw her FB on public, it did say activated IPhone on FB. So that means she got a new phone too probably to forget me. My ex is the type to remove herself from everything and everyone. Her last relationship didn't work out either, so she removed everything. And it made her super lonely after awhile. She went to a rebound right away and it didn't work out, so she left him too. Then met me after a few yrs and wanted a serious relationship not like her 1st relationship, where the guy just used her as a FWB kinda thing... Which confuses me, because she had what she wanted and just let it go. But I def know she is not keeping tabs on me. There is no way she can at all.... Which is a good thing too. Maybe if she really loves me she will miss me for once. I hear she had a family death too this month. But I guess her ego is getting in the way to admit anything. She thinks to highly of herself at times as if she's better than everyone else in the world. Link to post Share on other sites
na49 Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 Fact is, a lot of our Ex's keep tabs on us. Not all, but a lot. Even when you don't think they are. Especially if they dumped you. They want to make sure you're able to move on. But, some develop a feeling of "I don't want him, but I don't want anyone else having him or her either." They make contact, fill you up with false hope and screw your world up again. I feel like if it was up to most of our exes they wouldn't want us to move on. They'd never admit it, but they enjoy us giving up our dignity and crying for them to come back. They hate to see us loving life without them (not as much as we hate seeing them love life without us though) At least that's how I feel about my ex. She was probably a little upset I went NC so soon after the BU considering her other ex STILL bothers her from time to time and they've been broken up for like 9 months. They have no problem moving on from us, but hate seeing us move on from them. Pretty much like you said. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sotoman Posted December 23, 2012 Author Share Posted December 23, 2012 i agree. but do you think it tortures the dumpee when they sense that youve moved on? im curious as to what happens to their feelings on their end?? Link to post Share on other sites
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