bngo16 Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Well, I'll make this short, but I'll add every important detail you guys need to know. I met this girl and we became really good friends. I fell in love with her. I was mad for her and i found out during our senior year of high school that she was mad for me too. We ended up dating and I really loved her. But sadly like most relationships, She broke up with me and after graduation, we went our seperate ways. I noticed that around that time she started to flirt with my best friend and he flirted back. I thought they were just fooling around so I didn't get mad or anything and let it slip. Well after the break up I noticed that they spent a lot of time together and finally at graduation (three weeks after the break up) I saw them being affectionate with each other. I wanted to deny that they were together, but I had already known the truth. It just hit me today that they really were together because my best friend told me straight out. Well the situation is, I came back for the weekend from my university and i met up with him today. After we hung out, he called me and told me that they were really going out. He also asked me before that if i wanted to go to Universal Studios with them tomorrow. I made my mind up not to go and expose myself to something that would bug me..... but my question is, that this confirmation of them going out seems to bug me somewhat. I'm in university now, starting a new life, meeting new people. I'm happy that my ex and my best friend are happy together. Sorry, i just needed to get this out of my system and get some advice on how to deal with this. Thanks everyone, Time heals all wounds. After the break up i found this forum and it helped me a lot. Link to post Share on other sites
WhiteDragon Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Dude...good luck in college. You will definately enjoy yourself there. As far as your best friend and the girl.....best friend?? Personally that would piss me off sooo badly if my best friend did that to me. First off its disrespectful on her and his part to you. They both were selfish and did not even think of how this would affect you. Sounds like no one was straight up to you at the BEGINNING. More than likely the secretly played this game behind you for awhile. Thats not cool and "friends" like those are not your true friends. But you can't do nothing about that now. Just remember what those two did and never forget it. Find you some true friends. Good luck in college and have fun with all those college girls! Link to post Share on other sites
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