do I call her

[choppdogg]

THis is about an message I posted awhile ago

 

I went out with a girl on on fri the 27th of oct

 

we went out on the 31st (halloween) she said that she will go out agai but she was busy the rest of the week and weekend so the next week came around and she was busy again that week so now its a new week nov 14th and she has not made a effort to stay intouch about getting together other than a email saying Hi so Im wondering if i should call her or say screw it. I dont want to get serious with her but do enjoy the companionship since i seem to struggle in the dating world. Im convinced that if a person really wants to go out with someone they will make a effort to find some time Is she playing hard to get or should i reverse the roll and play hard to get.

[Tony T]

Call her and ask her out one more time. Leave it to her to let you know when it would be convenient to get together. If she waffles and wiggles and does not give you a definite date, then write her off and forget her.

 

I don't know why you are struggling in the dating world. There are millions of ladies out there looking for a guy just like you. Take some time and find them...and don't call it a struggle...call it fun.

[Deejette]

I agree, give her one more call and let it go at that. There may be many reasons that she is not responding,`including the presence of another guy in her life. And if she is playing hard to get just for the sake of the game, maybe you should try to forget about her and look elsewhere.

Call her and ask her out one more time. Leave it to her to let you know when it would be convenient to get together. If she waffles and wiggles and does not give you a definite date, then write her off and forget her. I don't know why you are struggling in the dating world. There are millions of ladies out there looking for a guy just like you. Take some time and find them...and don't call it a struggle...call it fun.