ally211 Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 There's this guy who works at my local Starbucks. I went there about 6months ago and when I had made my order he said I was well manned, I didn't think any thing of it so just said thanks. About a month or 2 past and I went again one time and he said it again. I was bit shocked and didn't know how to respond so just said thank you again. I though he was just being friendly as most of the staff there always ask me how I am when they serve me But since he said that he's been staring at me, started off about 10secs every so often. But in past 2-3 month, when I've been going he seems to stare at me for about 30-50secs quite often. Then a few time his male workmates were there and he stared at me then turn to them and they said something to him and he answered back/laugh at the same time (Like they were teasing/paying him out about something), then he stared at me again, and they sort of stare as well. I went there about a 1.5 weeks ago and he acted like he didn't know me/was just a normal customer. I went there last Saturday night and he was really friendly talking to me and stared at me from time to time I went their last nigh he was making the coffees with this other girl, the other girl spoke to me and ask how I was, and he completely ignored like he didn’t know me/didn’t exist. It was really busy so he didn’t have time to stop and stare so I couldn’t work out if he was just having a bad day or just doesn’t like me any more But about 30mins later this other girl came in, not sure if she was a friend of his or a regular customer, but she went up and he spoke to her and was really nice/friendly to. Don’t think it was his girlfriend as 30mins after that another girl came and he spoke to her and was really nice. Why is he playing me hot and cold? Is he shy, as he seemed really confident around those other girls and his workmates? I do like him just not sure if he likes me back Link to post Share on other sites
ellieryan85 Posted December 23, 2012 Share Posted December 23, 2012 It sounds like he does have a crush on you, but he feels rejected so he started trying to separate himself from the situation. Did you try talking to him recently? Link to post Share on other sites
Author ally211 Posted December 23, 2012 Author Share Posted December 23, 2012 Thanks no we haven't talk since last saturday as he didn't serve me/was really busy. Will try and talk to him next time I go if it's not busy. Should I flirt with him/compliment him next time we talk to let him know I'm still interested. If so what time of compliment could I give. Sorry not very good at the whole complimenting thing. Also I will be moving 1.5h away to Uni in feb should I mention that or will that scare him off for good. Link to post Share on other sites
ellieryan85 Posted December 23, 2012 Share Posted December 23, 2012 Just keep it simple when you talk to him. You don't have to compliment him, but make eye contact when you talk to him and maybe ask how busy it has been there, or if he has suggestions for a new drink to try. Ask him how his holiday was, ext. Don't mention the moving thing. Anyway, I used to talk to one of the guys that worked at sbux and he eventually asked me out. Just don't be too forward with your feelings! Link to post Share on other sites
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