noniky Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 I am 23 and my boyfriend of almost 4 years just broke up with me. He broke his wrist so has quite a bit of time off work and hasn't yet received any short term disability checks. So he kept telling me that he didn't know if we would be able to go on vacation since he was broke. This stressed me out, as I work 2 jobs and was in great need of a vacation. We ended up arguing quite a bit. So I took out a loan to make up for his portion, but he still wouldn't go; by then we were sick of arguing. So he broke up with me. I didn't want to waste my rare days off work so I went to Hawaii for 3 days and got back about 4 days ago. He had asked if the breakup would be easier on me if he moved out (it's my condo we live in) and i said yes. He keeps calling me and I'm always busy working. He doesn't have a whole lot to say and I don't either. Well tonight I was browsing on the internet and looked at his e-mail (I pay for the e-mail and I am the one who set his up for him, so I knew the password). He and my neighbor (5 feet across the hall!) had been exchanging emails. They talked about their first kiss, how they've enjoyed the past week and half (apparently he began seeing her before he broke up with me!), and how they like waking up in each other's arms. (I guess it's safe to assume they "slept" together). I am very upset. I can't get to sleep. I have gone to the restroom at least 20 minutes expecting to puke but it won't come out. I guess I will lose some weight, because last time he had girl issues I couldn't eat for a week. I just simply can't, doing so makes me feel like puking. I woke up my roommate (my ex's cousin, unfortunately) and asked him if he knew my ex was seeing the neighbor. He said "How did you find out?" He already knew!! I am so upset that people knew and didn't warn me! In fact, I walked out the door. I was steaming at this point and was going to go discuss all of this with my ex (I tried talking to him on the phone about it but he hung up) and guess what? As soon as I left my condo, my ex and neighbor passed me to go to her place to spend the night. UGH! I am so hurt... It's hard to sleep when I know they are doing things in this very building, things that I can't help but think about. I don't know why they are rubbing this in my face. Anyone else been in the same situation?? Link to post Share on other sites
pitprincess Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 I havent been there but I can tell you this ... You did the right thing telling him that he needed to leave. Sounds like he was planning on leaving anyways or playing till he got caught. I hope your neighbor isnt one of your friends His COUSIN Would be right out the door behind him. JMO Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 I agree - first choice to me would be moving out of that building altogether, but if that's not an option I'd get myself a new roommate. Link to post Share on other sites
pitprincess Posted August 16, 2004 Share Posted August 16, 2004 I agree with you as well Moving out of there to get away from the whole mess should help :) Link to post Share on other sites
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