promises Posted December 24, 2012 Share Posted December 24, 2012 I've been hopeful that this christmas would pass in a hurry. I knew long before dday that I did not want to be longing for MM over the holidays and be in tears because of it. Now that it's over, I'm finding it still hurts, a lot . Friends have been lost. Life has changed. Fighting tears. And, yet thankful in a strange way that the initial devastation of feelings on a multitude of levels is not quite as pronounced. LS has been a huge part of that journey. The journey back to reality and finding peace through this life changing experience. I hope for his childrens sake it's a good Christmas. For my own, I pray that I won't feel alone. For all of you who have given me support, Merry Christmas and thank you. I'll be thinking of you all in this virtual space and hope that you also find some peace this season. ((hugs)) ((peace)) 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Angel Heart Posted December 24, 2012 Share Posted December 24, 2012 I'm new to LS and have find some wonderful advice and friendly people on here already. I appreciate you taking the time to write your message. I hope you have a peaceful Holiday and wonderful new opportunities for the New Year. Take care and best wishes. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
EmptyHeartGirl Posted December 24, 2012 Share Posted December 24, 2012 Happy Holidays to all. It's been up and down for me as well, but I'm trying to stay optimistic for the new year. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted December 24, 2012 Share Posted December 24, 2012 I've been hopeful that this christmas would pass in a hurry. I knew long before dday that I did not want to be longing for MM over the holidays and be in tears because of it. Now that it's over, I'm finding it still hurts, a lot . Friends have been lost. Life has changed. Fighting tears. And, yet thankful in a strange way that the initial devastation of feelings on a multitude of levels is not quite as pronounced. LS has been a huge part of that journey. The journey back to reality and finding peace through this life changing experience. I hope for his childrens sake it's a good Christmas. For my own, I pray that I won't feel alone. For all of you who have given me support, Merry Christmas and thank you. I'll be thinking of you all in this virtual space and hope that you also find some peace this season. ((hugs)) ((peace)) Hey promises, I hope your Christmas will be lovely. Where's your family? For me, Christmas has always been about my family, more so than lovers/friends....so even when my love life was on the rocks, I could always look forward to having family and Christmas festivities to distract me from it. Time does heal though, so hopefully your New Year is superb! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted December 24, 2012 Share Posted December 24, 2012 Just think...in nine days its a whole New Year!! Hang in there and Merry Christmas! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HonestNeurotic Posted December 24, 2012 Share Posted December 24, 2012 Love to all in the world. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
buckeyeblue Posted December 24, 2012 Share Posted December 24, 2012 Merry Christmas, Promises. I hope that 2013 brings all of us a better year. Link to post Share on other sites
egalew Posted December 25, 2012 Share Posted December 25, 2012 Thanks, Promises for the warm wishes. What you said voices similar feelings. I am very grateful for the advice, support, wisdom and insight of the women here. I'm hurting having been recently and swiftly dumped by mm, whose going through a divorce. I am working hard to get through it and will. Still my shock is more acute these holidays, given there is no card, call, text or present as promised, proving he wasn't what I at all thought. Again, thanks to all and very Merry X-mas. Link to post Share on other sites
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