DarkwinDuck Posted December 26, 2012 Share Posted December 26, 2012 There's so much anger going inside me right now and I don't know what to about it. I dislike my girlfriends parents because they are disrespectful to me and our relationship. I'm not welcome. Her father doesn't even look at me 9 times out of 10 and the look in the mothers eyes tell me to get out and never come back. I've talked about this with my girlfriend and her parents. The only thing her parents tell us is; 'As long as our daughter is happy'. If we ask them what they really feel, they keep giving us the same crap. We know they disaprove. I tell my girlfriend; 'You know, we need to be strong and get through this together'. But I have a very hard time to keep calm and collected about this. I feel like I need to explode. I don't know what to do about these feelings. Do I tell my girlfriend how badly I think of her parents? Or shouldn't I mention a single word? What can I do about her parents? Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted December 26, 2012 Share Posted December 26, 2012 Why do they dislike you ? Link to post Share on other sites
Author DarkwinDuck Posted December 26, 2012 Author Share Posted December 26, 2012 I don't think that there's anything wrong with me. I make my girlfriend happy and treat her and her family with respect. That's all I can do. But I'm tired of the way they look at me. We've been together for 6 months now. I see a future with her. Her parents don't aprove of me. Why? I don't know. I have my stuff together. Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted December 27, 2012 Share Posted December 27, 2012 Then pump your gf for info on this. Between us, this is big. Their way of acting is very passive-agressive. Ppl who act like this tend to be more dangerous than those that are outwardly aggresive. I have a cousin who just divorced because his MIL interfered with his marriage and got her daughter to divorce him. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MissSantana99 Posted December 30, 2012 Share Posted December 30, 2012 Hey there, My parents were the same way when my hubby and I were dating. For some reason, at first, they couldn't stand him. He got sick one morning during breakfast and he couldn't eat most of his breakfast and they got so mad about that. They made fun of his family because they had less money than my parents and called them rednecks. He also called my boyfriend "uneducated" just because he likes to watch professional wrestling, and he has a college degree. They called him fat behind his back and everything. Pissed me off so much, I confronted them. The thing is that no matter what, some people are such shallow fools. That includes your in-laws. Please talk to your GF about this. This kind of crap is what breaks people up if it's ignored. I had to confront my parents about this and they haven't said anything since. Good luck and remember it's not you, but they are so insecure about losing their daughter. Link to post Share on other sites
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