IronWarrior Posted August 16, 2004 Share Posted August 16, 2004 Well I'am new to these boards but anyways I'd thought I would seek out some advice..soooo. well I'am 27 and broke up with my GF last October and since then I have had no dates just going out e.t.c.. I get alot of looks e.t.c. from women but nothing else really, when I was with my last GF she said she felt very jeolous because girls kept looking at me when we where together but I did'nt see it..lol I have been told I'am very very good looking blonde hair , hazel eyes, muscular build e.t.c.. but i see myself as a average guy, I have also been asked by others that i must have tons of women...I just laugh and say yeah right and they are kind of shocked..lol i really dont and they say com'onnn ... but seriously I'am starting to think something is wrong here I'am a down to earth guy, who is humerous e.t.c. no cockyat all,, but women dont come up to me e.t.c...I also dress nice and smell good, have a job, life e.t.c.. I'am just in search of my true love.. I have also been told sometimes people have to wait longer to get something thats really worth having..so who knows, but all i know is I'am approaching 30 and would like to meet a great girl around my age..time will tell, but any advice would be helpful...thanks Link to post Share on other sites
smile95 Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 I just have to say that I could have written that posr from a woman's perspective. I feel the SAME way. I am told I am picky, but I am just really looking for the right one. I wonder a lot when he will come in to my life. I am afraid all the good ones will be gone. I am 27 and have no kids and never been married. I am attractive (not to toot my own horn) and I get alot of looks too, but no one ever really catches my eye and if they do, they are not my type. I keep looking and the only advice I can give you is things will work out for you better than you imagined and you will look back and know why you had to wait so long...wanna go on a date???? lol Link to post Share on other sites
Foreversorry04 Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 I sometimes feel that I am the only one with this problem and to quote Beth, "I am afraid all the good ones will be gone". I just found out that two old female friends of mine just got engaged (not to each other), and they are both younger then me and I feel jealous. I thought they were both such free spirits and I thought they would never get married. I feel like the dating pool for people my age just got smaller. But I have never dated anyone my own age or younger, I found that (at least when I was in my early 20's) that the woman my age were too inmature. So I have always dated 30-35 year olds. Although it never really mattered their age, if I met someone who was my age or younger and mature enough with their lives, I would date them. But I never found anyone like that. I have a friend of mine who is 40 and has since become my best friend (and one of my only friends) and she said that once I got a good job with good paying money (I used to work retail @ Target, GOD I HATED that job & that company!!!) that finding someone would be easier. But now I find that a lot of the people are after one thing, MONEY! Sometimes I feel like I will be alone forever. Sorry IronWarrior, no real help here. But I am kind of glad I am not alone. Link to post Share on other sites
swordian Posted August 21, 2004 Share Posted August 21, 2004 i say do everything u can now. Soon, It'll be hard to tell whether their married or not, so you'll have to go online to meet ppl. It would probably be odd to hit on a girl and hav her say im married huh? Link to post Share on other sites
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