HonestNeurotic Posted December 29, 2012 Share Posted December 29, 2012 Certainly I do not go and meet new people and hang out in their bedrooms. If I had any inkling at all that a friend of mine had other ideas in their heads, I would not be with them in that type of situation. If a friend that I had for ten years all of a sudden started to be inappropriate - well - I'd have to leave. I'd have to make boundries and limit that friendship, or perhaps just give it up all together cuz we're just not on the same page as to what we think our relationship as friends is. It would freak me out - just like it did the poster of this thread. So I really understand that freaking out part. I wouldn't have let it happen, but if someone just made a pass at me after ten years? Major freak out. Though he did say that he was attracted to her before. He did leave that door open. I also never make any decisions while under the influence. I don't drink very often - maybe 6 times year and I'm almost always with my husband, and ganja is more something I do alone when I am painting (I am an artist) I guess because I've always just been this way with my friends, that I don't find it flirting with disaster. It's very rare that one of my friends flies into town - male or female - so I go to wherever they are if they don't want to drive to my house. In fact - it seems that most of the people that end up in affairs are through people that they work with. Strange that. I always made sure that any new boss I wanted to work for had absolutely positively NO attraction to me at all. Flirting with disaster to me - means continuing to hang out with someone that you know is attracted to you or you them and doing those things. Fortunately, it's not something I really have to worry about. Link to post Share on other sites
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