Adamgem Posted December 28, 2012 Share Posted December 28, 2012 Sometime ago I stopped posting on LS as certain people in this forum were nasty and not at all helpful/supportive. I normally only post when I feel vulnerable. I didn't need to be exposed to any negative negative attitudes so I left. Since then I remembered all those nice and very helpful posters that have made a very positive difference in my life. I have found LS to be mostly very beneficial. I have now gone NC.... I had posted before that I was going to try to keep things friendly so that I could get to what amounted to almost a full years salary. I have decided to let go of that money even though I am desperate for it. I think it is better to start over and let him keep my money. It makes me sick to think things must be like this but I am starting to think it is for the best. This time he doesn't have my phone number nor does he know where I am living. I have warned mutual friends to not give him my details. This time I hope I get free. Life is too short. I will miss him terribly. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
happyme Posted December 28, 2012 Share Posted December 28, 2012 Ok Alice I believe you mean to be supportive but really... you don't absolutely know this. Ademgem... in my most humble opinion, is indeed in need of emotional support and I do get the impression she's doing her best to extract herself from what she knows, deep down, is a toxic relationship. Please, give her a bit of a break... Ademgem do keep us posted. I, for one, am rooting for you xx 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Adamgem Posted December 28, 2012 Author Share Posted December 28, 2012 Ok Alice I believe you mean to be supportive but really... you don't absolutely know this. Ademgem... in my most humble opinion, is indeed in need of emotional support and I do get the impression she's doing her best to extract herself from what she knows, deep down, is a toxic relationship. Please, give her a bit of a break... Ademgem do keep us posted. I, for one, am rooting for you xx Thank you. What you say it true. For some reason Alice always seems to get things wrong where I am concerned. I no longer see the point of responding if I have to keep defending what I am saying.... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
happyme Posted December 28, 2012 Share Posted December 28, 2012 Alice you are genuinely doing your best I am sure, but surely one cannot KNOW anything about anyone else's feelings. I know I can't. Why not go on what Ademgem feels like sharing with us... and take it from there? She's not of bad intention after all... just looking for some understanding and guidance I expect. Let's say you do acutally know everything... even then that would not mean another person is in a position to be able to accept 'everything' in one go... xx Link to post Share on other sites
coffeebean201 Posted December 28, 2012 Share Posted December 28, 2012 There are a lot of people that lurk on LS without posting, so hopefully your comments are helpful to them. Sounds like a journey ahead. Not everyone has your strength and resolve. And not everyone is prepared to change their life for the better. Hope you have a great New Year. Link to post Share on other sites
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